All the friends I ever had seem to have left me or seem to want bad things to happen to me. I have not one friend in my life. It makes me sad. Will I ever find friends - good ones? Please, don't say "you have to get out more" or "join a group or church social". I'm a very social person, but still no friends. Will someone look into this for me?
Psychics, please help! Will I ever find friends (serious answer only)?
Okay, I'm not a psychic, but I'm being completely serious here. If your friends leave you or wish you ill, I would suggest looking at what attracts you to these friends. What do you expect from a friend and what do you want to share with a friend (interests in common, that sort of thing). Are you happy with your social life, or do you need to change the places you socialize in? How do you approach potential friends, or do you wait until they pick you? There are a lot of things you can do to improve your chances of making great friendships.
Reply:Good true friends are hard to come by. A lot of people might superficially act like your friend but they won't be there for you at 3 o'clock in the morning. I have found that the really good friends that are there for you at anytime stumble into your life. You don't expect it and then there they are. They give advice, let you cry on their shoulder, and are just fun to be around. Friendships do take work though, and you have to put work in to keep any relationship. Good luck, hope I helped. : )
Reply:its not external; its internal. you have to develop your spiritual self. whatever you think and perciecve will manifest itself to others. a native american story, the elder tells the young boy, there sare two wolves, one kind and loving gthe other mean, selfish and a killer. the little boy says how do i choose the good wolf? the elder says, the wolf you feed will become stronger and soon it will take over your will...its up to you. i told you before, meditate, look inward, Socrates said, "the life unexamined is not worth living." you must learn to know your self. start now
Reply:I have no friends either. Why should I most people are jerks. they get jealous. always want you to do their dumb stuff. not worth it.
Reply:How about a hot reading? It's when a psychic uses investigation techniques to fake a reading? Because I tried the legitimate psychic seeing, and saw confusion and strife.
Hmm. I see, you're struggling with work, and the criminal justice system, and acne.... you're around... 36 years old and I see... California?
You ask for psychic answers a lot, and have a Christian religion on the side. You have a hope for friends, as long as you don't bring your unfortunate past with you.
I recommend a life skills coach of some kind. In big cities there are programs to help people with unfortunate pasts get back up on their feet. Once you get a steady job, networking with other employees will open up some doors. If, and only if, you work on those tendencies to be impulsive, you will get a friend or two. But you mustn't neglect them, otherwise it will be harder to get more.
Reply:sure you will
psychics arent real...for this theres a friend sect
Reply:People seem to take advantage of you. For you to have more friends you need to let them see that they need to respect you, dont let them walk on you. Your probably too impressionable and nice and perhaps tend to jump when they say to then when the novalty has worn off they brush you aside. Make them need you instead of you putting across that you need them.
Be assertive, create an aura of respect and authority about yourself. A true friend will be there for you at all times and never treat you with dis-respect. I sense that this has been an issue for you since you were very young, That you lack confidence to express who you really are.
You need to be you only then will you meet real people who can be real friends.
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