Why can't my husband and i find any friends worth keeping?It just seems as if we are damned in life!!!!?

My husband and i hung out with his cousin and her husband for about 6 months about every other weekend and done alot for them. They have no kids bcuz she can't have any so i let her enjoy our 4 children we even talked about her being the gaurdian of them if something were to happen to us, well long story short they cut us off without a reason and have never spoken to us since. They were the one's always inviting us out, and we would never go without their invite. I became really great freinds with her and my husband did with her husband. I feel so distraught because i have no family because they are all deceased and i have no friends in our small town just aquantiances. I need a friend so bad because i feel lost with a girlfriend to talk to. My husband and i are best friends but doesn't everyone need someone of the same sex, same age to talk to? What should i do to ensure we could find some friends that are truly friends and won't kick us out of their life like the eve. trash?

Why can't my husband and i find any friends worth keeping?It just seems as if we are damned in life!!!!?
Surely something must have happened to cause them to stop talking to you. I would try talking to them and clearing it up. Just be honest and ask them - let them know that you miss them and are wondering if anything was said or done to offend them. If they were good friends to begin with you can all work through it. Good luck.
Reply:I will pray for you. Prayer can move mtns and doubts can create them.





Consider joining a church...ask for a recommendation.





Also I meet people by volunteering...





You will create a circle of friendship and support.





Reach out to a friendlyu aquantiance and tell her how lonely you are....





Take care!





Never Give Up!
Reply:Well, you can start by finding friends online, offline, wherever you think it suits you. Yeah, you're right. Everyone need someone of the same sex, same age to talk to. Oh, yeah you can join a group too, you know, group with many members with same sex, same age? Then, it would be much easier to find friends. Anyway, I don't know, I don't think anybody would act that way to his friends so suddenly. Maybe they heard something bad about you from others? But whatever it is, I don't think they are that bad. Maybe it's just some misunderstanding. Good luck though with your next in line true friends. :)





PS: Oh, by the way, I still think you should find some way to clear up the problems with your friends while you're searching for new friends. The best thing could happen? You have more friends than ever and don't have to depend only on her to be your girlfriend. The worst thing could happen? You'll lose them but gain some other new friends anyway. So, it doesn't matter. :)
Reply:Good friends are hard to find. Have you asked them why they vut you off?
Reply:Sucks doesn't it, our best friends had to move. Tried of opening up to someone just to find out later they got more problems than we can handle and they're using us. We fly my wifes best friend out to see us once a year to visit though.
Reply:That is so sad, it happens a lot, it seems that some people just get used and when their usefulness has run out, they are dropped like a hot potato. I don't know how old you are, I am 30 and would be happy to be your email buddy, I know it's not the same as having a friend in person but I am a good listener.