Where can i find a friend, who only wants to b friends?

everytime i make friends, which its ususlly with a guy, they try to becoe more then that...it bothers me, and all my girlfriends always have their free time taken up with their boyfriends...where can i find a friend who just wants to b friends!?

Where can i find a friend, who only wants to b friends?
It's hard to find a friend that only wants to be a friend. You are going to have to stand up and draw the line yourself if you enjoy their company. My best friend is a man and I know that he has other feelings for me but I told him that if he wanted to continue to be friends with me that we could only be friends. I love him as my best friend but ONLY as my best friend. You can't put other feelings in there that you don't feel. Sometimes it's harsh but it is always for the best and if they want to stay in your life then they will accept your terms just as I would hope that you could do if you wanted to stay in someones life that you cared more for than they cared for you. I've had to do that too.
Reply:Well you might want to look at it like this. All relationships have their own level of intimacy. An acquaintance has very little intimacy. A friend has more and a lovers have even more.





As your friendship with someone develops, the level of intimacy will increase.





Somewhere on the intimacy scale there is a point between friends and romantic interest.





If your male friend is single and finds you attractive, he is bond to develop a romantic interest as the intimacy progresses.





If your friendship obtains a level of mutual understand and intimacy beyond a married friend’s intimacy level with his spouse, he is likely to become interested in you as well. This could lead to an affair depending on the moral fiber of the two people involved.





Depending on how deep of a friendship you want, you might consider….A friend who is married or even a gay a friend or stick to friends of your own sex.





When dealing with a friend of the opposite sex you need to stay on guard though and set certain standards and boundaries to prevent the relationship from developing beyond a point you don’t want it to. You should figure out what the warning signs are and then figure out how to handle the situation when it comes up so you keep the friend or curb the romantic interest before it develops too far.





You might also try an older or younger friend that would lower the chance of sexual interest.
Reply:FriendFinder.com





Good luck!
Reply:trust ur self and be the king in ur sight
Reply:anywhere.
Reply:online. where it can't really be anything more than jsut friends rofl
Reply:Its hard to find a guy friend, u will find him but just for the first week or so because then he is going to want something more than just that, so u have to look harder or just let him come to u.
Reply:to quote Carlos Mencia: "No one with a penis is really your friend, they say they are but it's all just pretend. He listens to your problems when he phones you, but all he wants to do is just to bone you...ole!"