My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month and everything's going great. When we started going out he told me that he was trying to turn over a new leaf because he had gotten arrested (for the third time) for marijuana possesion. This was in April of this year. He started going to group therapy and NA and AA meetings in preparation for his court date. He was doing really well, going to all his meetings and spending the majority of his free time with me. However, whenever he hangs out with his friends and frat buddies, he smokes pot with them. Not only that, but all his friends are into all kinds of drugs (marijuana, cocaine, prescription pills, etc.) and all of them have had run-ins with the law because of it. I know that if his friends didn't use, then he wouldn't either because he never does it when he's not with them.
How can I get him to find some new friends who aren't stoners? He's starting grad school in the fall, so this might help, but is it enough?
How can I find new friends for my boyfriend?
I guess it's up to him to make the decision. If he really doesn't want to smoke then he will say no. His friends should also understand if they are his real friends.
Do you have any guy friends? Or know any great ones out there? You and him could hang out with them more often. Maybe he would get along with these people and become friends with them too.
Good luck. I hope he stops and gets better friends!
Monday, May 4, 2009
Am I weird because I dont have many friends & when I do have them find it hard to stay friends?
I am 25,married with 2 kids under 6. I fill my time with my families needs, renovating my house, doing my gardens, I am studying law, do a dance class once a week, love to read and write, enjoy learning new things- currently learning about survival in the bush, orienteering, plants,wildlife, e.t.c....I have 3 sisters %26amp; 2 brothers %26amp; talk to them, my mother, parents in law at least once a week. I take my youngest child to a mums group where I talk to other mums easily. I have no close friends outside of theese people. My family call me a loner %26amp; think it is weird that I do not want to make friends. My husband is similar to me, is close to his parents %26amp; has 1 good friend since childhood. I recently made friends with a mum of my age by talking to her at a shop. However I find I have to make an effort to even call her, but when we are together it is fun. I like being alone alot, but am going to make more friends to satisfy my family. I do enjoy occasional company.Am I a weird loner?
Am I weird because I dont have many friends %26amp; when I do have them find it hard to stay friends?
I think that's perfectly understandable - it takes time to maintain friendships and it seems like that's something you don't have a lot of at the moment! There's nothing wrong with enjoying the company of your family so much that you don't feel you need other people aswell. So maybe you are a loner, but what's wrong with that if you're happy? I say live the way you want to live and make friends for yourself, not to appease your family.
Keep up the good work : )
Reply:Friends come and go, your family will be there forever.Be who you are, don't let others tell you what or how you should be. Ask yourself ; am I happy? Do I like myself? If you answer yes to these questions, ROCK ON!!
Am I weird because I dont have many friends %26amp; when I do have them find it hard to stay friends?
I think that's perfectly understandable - it takes time to maintain friendships and it seems like that's something you don't have a lot of at the moment! There's nothing wrong with enjoying the company of your family so much that you don't feel you need other people aswell. So maybe you are a loner, but what's wrong with that if you're happy? I say live the way you want to live and make friends for yourself, not to appease your family.
Keep up the good work : )
Reply:Friends come and go, your family will be there forever.Be who you are, don't let others tell you what or how you should be. Ask yourself ; am I happy? Do I like myself? If you answer yes to these questions, ROCK ON!!
Do you find it harder to make friends and acquaintances as you get older?
Now that I'm retired it is difficult to find friends. As for family, I only have a daughter who lives near me. She is busy with her own life although I see her often.
I didn't grow up in this area so have no friends "from high school" here. I lost most of my friends when I got divorced. I still don't know why they ditched me.
I've tried making friends in my condo complex, including being on the homeowners Board, and that ended up with being around some mean spirited people. The women I meet here seem to like to gossip about the others. It wears me down since I don't care to gossip.
I tend to get lonely and depressed living by myself. Do any of you have the same problem? I've tried everything - church, volunteering, senior gatherings, library groups, etc. Everyone comes with a friend.
(If you are one of those "busier than ever with no extra time" retirees, please do not answer this question.)
Do you find it harder to make friends and acquaintances as you get older?
I can understand completely. I think it is harder when you get older because of many things. We learn from mistakes and have our guard up from previous hurts and things. try to come on here and have fun, and go to resale shops and thrift stores and get out and just hav efun with yourself. I do that often. I have been hurt and do not have friends becasue of it. Only family who can be just as bad, and my sis who I met on line who is more than family. comeon her eand we will all have a fun time!!!!!
Reply:Yes but I live in Las Vegas and you don't want to be "friends" with these people.
Reply:I'm only 57 but I'm widowed so straight away your options are reduced because most people in my age range are married so you're always the 3rd or 5th wheel in a group.
I don't do the bar scene.
I tried online dating and the men on there were absolutely shocking.....the women were as bad if not worse.......a couple of times I contacted widowed females in my area to see if they felt the same as me and one wrongly assumed I was a lesbian trying to hit on her!
Sometimes people meet others through their work....but I'm a funeral director so all the people I meet are grieving. I've met some lovely people through families I have served, but if you go out for dinner or an evening, all they want to do is talk about the person they've lost so for me it feels like I never get away from work.
I do my best to keep busy and fortunately I'm comfortable in my own skin and enjoy my own company, but it would be nice sometimes to have a circle of friends outside of my family.
Reply:No, I don't. I, also, find it easier to make friends now. But then, I didn't make any friends as a young person. I am somewhat more open to people than I used to be.
It does get lonely and while my solution may not work for everyone it works for me. This is obviously one of options that I have and take advantage of and have made some friends that I have never met and may never meet.
I also have also been taking Ballroom dance lessons and attending the monthly dances.
I attend to my spirituality regularly and have friends there as well.
After that I ride my motorcycle.
Reply:It is hard to make friends and to keep them. I don't know if our age makes it more difficult or not. I personally have learned to be happy with a very few true friends and some nice acquaintances. I too hate the gossipers, meddlers and drama queens so I keep to myself a lot.
Perhaps you haven't found the right match yet in the activities you've tried. Do you have skills that might attract friends? One of my friends plays Bridge and is constantly invited to fill in for someone for an evening of card playing. A neighbor of mine bakes a cake each week and takes it to the Senior Center to share it with friends.
My mother gave me some good advice when I was a lonely little kid in a new town. She told me to watch for someone who looked like they could use a friend and go talk to them. Please don't give up. Good luck.
Reply:I find it is much easier at my age, not all that competitiveness and immaturity anymore. We are much more relaxed and secure in our own skin. I have friends of all ages and really appreciate the ones who are close to my age.
Reply:Wow, I sure can relate to these feelings! Supposedly, it is referred to as "the empty nest syndrome". Some also say it's a form of simple depression. There's nothing simple about it! I don't have much advice for you because I'm still trying to find some ways to re-connect myself. Just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone in the way you feel! My 29 year old also has some of the same problems in their life. I stopped volunteering because of the silly gossip sessions what I just could not stand to be a part of or party to. Perhaps a new hobby would help you to find some joy in your life.
Reply:I do think it is harder to make friends now, but I attribute it more to the changes in my life than in the world's attitude toward women my age.
1. I no longer go out after dark very often and I seldom drive at night. That is very different from what I did in my 20's.
2. I don't dress the way I used to.
3. I am probably less approachable than I was.
4. I don't flirt much anymore. What was cute at 20, looks pretty desperate a decade or two later.
5. I am not around singles my age very often. In my 20's, I was in school and there were more opportunities for social interaction.
6. When I was in my 20's I never thought my net worth was under consideration. Now, it is pretty clear that it counts.
7. When I was in my 20's, I would look at men and wonder what they would look like with their shirt off. Now, I look at men my age and wonder if their heart is up to it?
8. I used to be a good dancer. Now, I wonder if doing the "twist" years ago accounts for my bad left knee now.
9. I used to losen up after a cocktail or two. Now, I would probably fall asleep.
10. Men used to single me out of a crowd. Now, it seems like they run in packs, and so do we women.
My advice....Join the Red Hat Society. Dress up, go out to lunch with the girls and have a great time. Attitude is everything and it is just as appealing now as back in our good old days.
Reply:Hi, I'm autumlovr here at yahoo. I have a 360 blog, you can always visit me or email me.
Just double click on my avatar and you can come and visit my blog anytime you like.
I also post photos at :
http://www.flickr.com/photos/12389985@N0...
I spend most of my yahoo time in Arts and Humanities (Poetry) (Philosophy)
Feel free to visit
Reply:I am older, though not yet retired and I personally find it easier than ever to make friends. However, the nature of friendships is different from when I was young. I had to had some common interest or activity to make friends as a young man. And if I didn't revisit that friendship daily or weekly, it would diminish.
Now I can renew and foster a friendship with a monthly, semi-annual, or even quite distant casual contact. A Christmas Card or annual golf outing can maintain a meaningful friendship.
If you feel the need to be closer than that, do it. Be a good friend and you will always make and have good friends. You and your smile and attitude will set the tone!
Reply:not really, i guess u have to go out of your way to talk to the people that u think u would like for friends. good luck
Reply:I don't, but I am around people I have known most of my life. Well, except here on Yahoo, and I have made friends here. I had to step out of my shell and just trust people, which is hard for me to do sometimes. There was one I ended up deleting but that is just one out of 50 so I say that is pretty good odds. Check out my profile and I'll be your friend.
Reply:I'm not sure that it will help, but starting a hobby such as singing with a choir, or gardening will give you many opportunities to meet people and talk about .. well everything. :) To do with tulips... and life, and singing, and being part of a group. From those experiences comes friends.
I've had the most success finding friends through non-volunteer participatory groups, where those other people aren't feeling sometimes stressed and put-upon to be there too.
:) Good luck with friend hunting. :)
Reply:You are not the only one with that problem. I accepted a job 2,000 miles away 12 years ago, because I was desperate with no money. Now, newly retired, I have NO relatives in this state and purposely did not try to meet a lady or make friends, because I knew I would be moving to another state to be near my grand kids.
So now I'm moving (May) to a retirement building in Colorado Springs and won't know a soul, the family I have will be 30 minutes away. I'm going to give it a shot then.
Reply:I have the opposite problem.
Whenever I am shopping, strangers want to strike up a conversation while standing in line at the check-out.
Reply:Interesting question. Although I am no where near retirement at 27 I find many of the things you say still hold true (and isn't it sad people seem to ditch others based on popularity IE significant others even very far past high school...)
For my experience it seems many adult social circles are based on things like networking, money, gossip, swapping sexual favors, just getting info to raise one's own kids...all rather corrupt reasons for being friends.
The all of two truly stable friends I have are very quirky people, subconsciously I think my attitude tells people who are not so kind hearted not to be my friends (IE much of the reason I have few friends is I have a short temper toward would-be bad friends).
I know this may sound odd as a suggestion for someone not from the "digital age", but online groups and online dating may be the answer for you. I found my g/f that way and one of my two local friends. Just go online and find someone intelligent...talk about things like entertainment, movies, history, news, books, what ever. Worst case, you learn a lot and have productive conversation. Best case you meet at Luby's (or something like that) and have dinner together.
I know it's hard being alone...I was that way and friendless for about two years after college when everyone else was "too busy becoming rich and famous parents"...but keep looking and you'll most likely make some friends who meet your integrity.
Reply:Pink if I make a friend I keep it a life time.
May I subject you visit the 360* blogs here on Yahoo us girls have been having a blast with these..It keeps me busy in my spare time.
Reply:I moved away from my "roots" for financial reasons.I decided to buy a small house rather than a condo thinking it is easier to meet people in their yards or in the street.I have met a few friends but none of them are the kind of people I am used to, although they are very nice.
This suggestion might make you say "NO WAY!", but here goes: The nicest people i have met, both men and women are from the Senior Bowling League.These people are more my type, no snobs, gossips, no fake B.S.! They will gladly take you as a beginner if you have never played before.I used to play a great game 35 years ago, but had to start over on a beginners league because of back problems.
Before you say no to this call your nearest Alley, ask when Senior Night is and go watch.I bet you have a good time!
Reply:Best friend I got is my dog
Reply:Finding true friends is really difficult no matter what age you are. I live in the country and work about 40 miles away so doing things after work is not possible usually. I have never connected with my co-workers because we are just different kinds of people. I am not saying there is anything wrong with them but our interest are different. We are way more isolated as a society today and this is one of the reasons. I would keep trying the things you have been and be patient.
I didn't grow up in this area so have no friends "from high school" here. I lost most of my friends when I got divorced. I still don't know why they ditched me.
I've tried making friends in my condo complex, including being on the homeowners Board, and that ended up with being around some mean spirited people. The women I meet here seem to like to gossip about the others. It wears me down since I don't care to gossip.
I tend to get lonely and depressed living by myself. Do any of you have the same problem? I've tried everything - church, volunteering, senior gatherings, library groups, etc. Everyone comes with a friend.
(If you are one of those "busier than ever with no extra time" retirees, please do not answer this question.)
Do you find it harder to make friends and acquaintances as you get older?
I can understand completely. I think it is harder when you get older because of many things. We learn from mistakes and have our guard up from previous hurts and things. try to come on here and have fun, and go to resale shops and thrift stores and get out and just hav efun with yourself. I do that often. I have been hurt and do not have friends becasue of it. Only family who can be just as bad, and my sis who I met on line who is more than family. comeon her eand we will all have a fun time!!!!!
Reply:Yes but I live in Las Vegas and you don't want to be "friends" with these people.
Reply:I'm only 57 but I'm widowed so straight away your options are reduced because most people in my age range are married so you're always the 3rd or 5th wheel in a group.
I don't do the bar scene.
I tried online dating and the men on there were absolutely shocking.....the women were as bad if not worse.......a couple of times I contacted widowed females in my area to see if they felt the same as me and one wrongly assumed I was a lesbian trying to hit on her!
Sometimes people meet others through their work....but I'm a funeral director so all the people I meet are grieving. I've met some lovely people through families I have served, but if you go out for dinner or an evening, all they want to do is talk about the person they've lost so for me it feels like I never get away from work.
I do my best to keep busy and fortunately I'm comfortable in my own skin and enjoy my own company, but it would be nice sometimes to have a circle of friends outside of my family.
Reply:No, I don't. I, also, find it easier to make friends now. But then, I didn't make any friends as a young person. I am somewhat more open to people than I used to be.
It does get lonely and while my solution may not work for everyone it works for me. This is obviously one of options that I have and take advantage of and have made some friends that I have never met and may never meet.
I also have also been taking Ballroom dance lessons and attending the monthly dances.
I attend to my spirituality regularly and have friends there as well.
After that I ride my motorcycle.
Reply:It is hard to make friends and to keep them. I don't know if our age makes it more difficult or not. I personally have learned to be happy with a very few true friends and some nice acquaintances. I too hate the gossipers, meddlers and drama queens so I keep to myself a lot.
Perhaps you haven't found the right match yet in the activities you've tried. Do you have skills that might attract friends? One of my friends plays Bridge and is constantly invited to fill in for someone for an evening of card playing. A neighbor of mine bakes a cake each week and takes it to the Senior Center to share it with friends.
My mother gave me some good advice when I was a lonely little kid in a new town. She told me to watch for someone who looked like they could use a friend and go talk to them. Please don't give up. Good luck.
Reply:I find it is much easier at my age, not all that competitiveness and immaturity anymore. We are much more relaxed and secure in our own skin. I have friends of all ages and really appreciate the ones who are close to my age.
Reply:Wow, I sure can relate to these feelings! Supposedly, it is referred to as "the empty nest syndrome". Some also say it's a form of simple depression. There's nothing simple about it! I don't have much advice for you because I'm still trying to find some ways to re-connect myself. Just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone in the way you feel! My 29 year old also has some of the same problems in their life. I stopped volunteering because of the silly gossip sessions what I just could not stand to be a part of or party to. Perhaps a new hobby would help you to find some joy in your life.
Reply:I do think it is harder to make friends now, but I attribute it more to the changes in my life than in the world's attitude toward women my age.
1. I no longer go out after dark very often and I seldom drive at night. That is very different from what I did in my 20's.
2. I don't dress the way I used to.
3. I am probably less approachable than I was.
4. I don't flirt much anymore. What was cute at 20, looks pretty desperate a decade or two later.
5. I am not around singles my age very often. In my 20's, I was in school and there were more opportunities for social interaction.
6. When I was in my 20's I never thought my net worth was under consideration. Now, it is pretty clear that it counts.
7. When I was in my 20's, I would look at men and wonder what they would look like with their shirt off. Now, I look at men my age and wonder if their heart is up to it?
8. I used to be a good dancer. Now, I wonder if doing the "twist" years ago accounts for my bad left knee now.
9. I used to losen up after a cocktail or two. Now, I would probably fall asleep.
10. Men used to single me out of a crowd. Now, it seems like they run in packs, and so do we women.
My advice....Join the Red Hat Society. Dress up, go out to lunch with the girls and have a great time. Attitude is everything and it is just as appealing now as back in our good old days.
Reply:Hi, I'm autumlovr here at yahoo. I have a 360 blog, you can always visit me or email me.
Just double click on my avatar and you can come and visit my blog anytime you like.
I also post photos at :
http://www.flickr.com/photos/12389985@N0...
I spend most of my yahoo time in Arts and Humanities (Poetry) (Philosophy)
Feel free to visit
Reply:I am older, though not yet retired and I personally find it easier than ever to make friends. However, the nature of friendships is different from when I was young. I had to had some common interest or activity to make friends as a young man. And if I didn't revisit that friendship daily or weekly, it would diminish.
Now I can renew and foster a friendship with a monthly, semi-annual, or even quite distant casual contact. A Christmas Card or annual golf outing can maintain a meaningful friendship.
If you feel the need to be closer than that, do it. Be a good friend and you will always make and have good friends. You and your smile and attitude will set the tone!
Reply:not really, i guess u have to go out of your way to talk to the people that u think u would like for friends. good luck
Reply:I don't, but I am around people I have known most of my life. Well, except here on Yahoo, and I have made friends here. I had to step out of my shell and just trust people, which is hard for me to do sometimes. There was one I ended up deleting but that is just one out of 50 so I say that is pretty good odds. Check out my profile and I'll be your friend.
Reply:I'm not sure that it will help, but starting a hobby such as singing with a choir, or gardening will give you many opportunities to meet people and talk about .. well everything. :) To do with tulips... and life, and singing, and being part of a group. From those experiences comes friends.
I've had the most success finding friends through non-volunteer participatory groups, where those other people aren't feeling sometimes stressed and put-upon to be there too.
:) Good luck with friend hunting. :)
Reply:You are not the only one with that problem. I accepted a job 2,000 miles away 12 years ago, because I was desperate with no money. Now, newly retired, I have NO relatives in this state and purposely did not try to meet a lady or make friends, because I knew I would be moving to another state to be near my grand kids.
So now I'm moving (May) to a retirement building in Colorado Springs and won't know a soul, the family I have will be 30 minutes away. I'm going to give it a shot then.
Reply:I have the opposite problem.
Whenever I am shopping, strangers want to strike up a conversation while standing in line at the check-out.
Reply:Interesting question. Although I am no where near retirement at 27 I find many of the things you say still hold true (and isn't it sad people seem to ditch others based on popularity IE significant others even very far past high school...)
For my experience it seems many adult social circles are based on things like networking, money, gossip, swapping sexual favors, just getting info to raise one's own kids...all rather corrupt reasons for being friends.
The all of two truly stable friends I have are very quirky people, subconsciously I think my attitude tells people who are not so kind hearted not to be my friends (IE much of the reason I have few friends is I have a short temper toward would-be bad friends).
I know this may sound odd as a suggestion for someone not from the "digital age", but online groups and online dating may be the answer for you. I found my g/f that way and one of my two local friends. Just go online and find someone intelligent...talk about things like entertainment, movies, history, news, books, what ever. Worst case, you learn a lot and have productive conversation. Best case you meet at Luby's (or something like that) and have dinner together.
I know it's hard being alone...I was that way and friendless for about two years after college when everyone else was "too busy becoming rich and famous parents"...but keep looking and you'll most likely make some friends who meet your integrity.
Reply:Pink if I make a friend I keep it a life time.
May I subject you visit the 360* blogs here on Yahoo us girls have been having a blast with these..It keeps me busy in my spare time.
Reply:I moved away from my "roots" for financial reasons.I decided to buy a small house rather than a condo thinking it is easier to meet people in their yards or in the street.I have met a few friends but none of them are the kind of people I am used to, although they are very nice.
This suggestion might make you say "NO WAY!", but here goes: The nicest people i have met, both men and women are from the Senior Bowling League.These people are more my type, no snobs, gossips, no fake B.S.! They will gladly take you as a beginner if you have never played before.I used to play a great game 35 years ago, but had to start over on a beginners league because of back problems.
Before you say no to this call your nearest Alley, ask when Senior Night is and go watch.I bet you have a good time!
Reply:Best friend I got is my dog
Reply:Finding true friends is really difficult no matter what age you are. I live in the country and work about 40 miles away so doing things after work is not possible usually. I have never connected with my co-workers because we are just different kinds of people. I am not saying there is anything wrong with them but our interest are different. We are way more isolated as a society today and this is one of the reasons. I would keep trying the things you have been and be patient.
My friends are toxic. How do I find new ones at my age?
Anytime I want to go somewhere with my friends I have to pay the way for them. They have tons of drama in their lives and it's all they ever talk about, unless, they are telling me how to live my life. It's so hypocritical and I'm sick of it. How do I find new friends when I'm in my 30's?
My friends are toxic. How do I find new ones at my age?
Move, it's like you can start over.
Reply:Church,Take a hobby class,go to a night club,fitness group,singles groups, etc.
Reply:Wow,good luck with that.But it definitely sounds like you need new ones,you are being used by them it seems.My advice is to try going to a place by yourself once and see what happens,you just might meet a friend or even boy or girlfriend.
Also,there is always sites online to try.
Reply:How about when they ask you to pay you say nope sorry.
Or when they piss and moan tell them you don't want to here about it, you have enough problems of your owm.
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My friends are toxic. How do I find new ones at my age?
Move, it's like you can start over.
Reply:Church,Take a hobby class,go to a night club,fitness group,singles groups, etc.
Reply:Wow,good luck with that.But it definitely sounds like you need new ones,you are being used by them it seems.My advice is to try going to a place by yourself once and see what happens,you just might meet a friend or even boy or girlfriend.
Also,there is always sites online to try.
Reply:How about when they ask you to pay you say nope sorry.
Or when they piss and moan tell them you don't want to here about it, you have enough problems of your owm.
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Hard to find great quality friends?
I've never been able to find a best friend really - all the friends I have seem to want like 100 friends who they can spend time with when and as they choose and I dont just want to be a number to a friend - I want closer more exclusive friendships but why is that so hard to find nowadays?
Hard to find great quality friends?
I've been wondering that myself. I am totally social, I've made 100's of friends had over 100 numbers in my cell at one point in time and always had someone to do something with. But when I think of who will actually be there for me when things get ugly... I don't really know! I've had one best friend and I had to move away (I was only 12) and now that I'm an adult I look back and find that I haven't had a best friend (that stuck) since... It's hard to find good hearted down to earth people. Seems like a lot of people are in it for themselves, too caught up in the social game or simply just someone who you have good chemistry with. I've had one really good friend since I was 12, I would say Best friend, and we ended after a year becuase she got serious with someone and we kind of fell out... I don't know why, just her big change in life I guess... I'm married now and I think it makes things a little harder becuase often it's "couples" that hang out. You have to practically "date around" for a couple to hang out with!!! LMAO But in the end people seem so shallow, fake or just into sitting around having a meaningless life in what I've observed. Rarely people want to get out and do new things or think about someone else other than themselves to care about... It's really sad... But I guess when you find someone or a group it'll make things that much better. I've always wanted to be like the girls on Sex in the City or Desperate houswives with sunday tea or lunch!
Reply:You are right...it's very difficult to find real friends, to have things in common ....it takes time....I think....the same with me....very difficult to find the real ones.
Reply:It's hard to find great quality friends nowadays because so many people think it's more important to be cool or popular or thin than to be honest or generous or useful.
Find things to do that are likely to have people with similar values to yours, such as volunteering at an animal shelter, join a book discussion group at your library, volunteer at a wildlife refuge or nature center, be a candy striper at a hospital, etc. Keep trying and be patient and you will soon have lots of people around you that you have values and tastes in common with.
Hard to find great quality friends?
I've been wondering that myself. I am totally social, I've made 100's of friends had over 100 numbers in my cell at one point in time and always had someone to do something with. But when I think of who will actually be there for me when things get ugly... I don't really know! I've had one best friend and I had to move away (I was only 12) and now that I'm an adult I look back and find that I haven't had a best friend (that stuck) since... It's hard to find good hearted down to earth people. Seems like a lot of people are in it for themselves, too caught up in the social game or simply just someone who you have good chemistry with. I've had one really good friend since I was 12, I would say Best friend, and we ended after a year becuase she got serious with someone and we kind of fell out... I don't know why, just her big change in life I guess... I'm married now and I think it makes things a little harder becuase often it's "couples" that hang out. You have to practically "date around" for a couple to hang out with!!! LMAO But in the end people seem so shallow, fake or just into sitting around having a meaningless life in what I've observed. Rarely people want to get out and do new things or think about someone else other than themselves to care about... It's really sad... But I guess when you find someone or a group it'll make things that much better. I've always wanted to be like the girls on Sex in the City or Desperate houswives with sunday tea or lunch!
Reply:You are right...it's very difficult to find real friends, to have things in common ....it takes time....I think....the same with me....very difficult to find the real ones.
Reply:It's hard to find great quality friends nowadays because so many people think it's more important to be cool or popular or thin than to be honest or generous or useful.
Find things to do that are likely to have people with similar values to yours, such as volunteering at an animal shelter, join a book discussion group at your library, volunteer at a wildlife refuge or nature center, be a candy striper at a hospital, etc. Keep trying and be patient and you will soon have lots of people around you that you have values and tastes in common with.
How to find friends and stop feeling this way??
seems that all of my friends are single and i am married with a blended family... his hers and ours (3 kids total) and all i ever do is clean my house and do laundry etc.... basic life needs and activities of daily living for all five of us..... my friends are all single and they are busy doing fun things every day of their lives... sometimes it gets depressing..... as i sit on yahoo answers while they have fun but i have obligations to the house and don't find it worth while to drag three kids out in the cold.....
so how do i find friends that will understand me, and be on the same page as me instead of always feeling like my life sux compared to the people that i regularly interact with???
i didn't always feel this way, but after 3 yrs of marriage/ownign a house etc...its getting harder.
How to find friends and stop feeling this way??
We have a lot in common. I'm 24. I have a 9-month old son. I'm also currently engaged. My man and I also had to to change our lifestyle after the baby. I currently stay home with my son right now. My man works offshore. I'm also looking for married couples to hang out with also. So, great question! So, we are in the same boat. Let's see what the people have to say! If, you want a penpal e-mail me.
Reply:In life sometimes u give up things that u lived for..like in ur case having fun going outside..and things like that...but think about the bright side..i mean u can take ur kids out to the park and have fun u dun need to have ur friends with u all the time the reason u see ur friends out there having fun is because they are single and they dont have a home and 3 kids to take care of like u do so u guys are at different stages in life so that comes with different obligations...the next time u feel lonely why not take a day off and go to the beach or enjoy a day out, everyone in their life has to get married and do normal things that wives do and there are times when u feel like u want to give up and think that ur life sux but what about all the good things that happened after u got married be a little more optimistic can get u a long way. Good luck!
so how do i find friends that will understand me, and be on the same page as me instead of always feeling like my life sux compared to the people that i regularly interact with???
i didn't always feel this way, but after 3 yrs of marriage/ownign a house etc...its getting harder.
How to find friends and stop feeling this way??
We have a lot in common. I'm 24. I have a 9-month old son. I'm also currently engaged. My man and I also had to to change our lifestyle after the baby. I currently stay home with my son right now. My man works offshore. I'm also looking for married couples to hang out with also. So, great question! So, we are in the same boat. Let's see what the people have to say! If, you want a penpal e-mail me.
Reply:In life sometimes u give up things that u lived for..like in ur case having fun going outside..and things like that...but think about the bright side..i mean u can take ur kids out to the park and have fun u dun need to have ur friends with u all the time the reason u see ur friends out there having fun is because they are single and they dont have a home and 3 kids to take care of like u do so u guys are at different stages in life so that comes with different obligations...the next time u feel lonely why not take a day off and go to the beach or enjoy a day out, everyone in their life has to get married and do normal things that wives do and there are times when u feel like u want to give up and think that ur life sux but what about all the good things that happened after u got married be a little more optimistic can get u a long way. Good luck!
Where can i find a friend, who only wants to b friends?
everytime i make friends, which its ususlly with a guy, they try to becoe more then that...it bothers me, and all my girlfriends always have their free time taken up with their boyfriends...where can i find a friend who just wants to b friends!?
Where can i find a friend, who only wants to b friends?
It's hard to find a friend that only wants to be a friend. You are going to have to stand up and draw the line yourself if you enjoy their company. My best friend is a man and I know that he has other feelings for me but I told him that if he wanted to continue to be friends with me that we could only be friends. I love him as my best friend but ONLY as my best friend. You can't put other feelings in there that you don't feel. Sometimes it's harsh but it is always for the best and if they want to stay in your life then they will accept your terms just as I would hope that you could do if you wanted to stay in someones life that you cared more for than they cared for you. I've had to do that too.
Reply:Well you might want to look at it like this. All relationships have their own level of intimacy. An acquaintance has very little intimacy. A friend has more and a lovers have even more.
As your friendship with someone develops, the level of intimacy will increase.
Somewhere on the intimacy scale there is a point between friends and romantic interest.
If your male friend is single and finds you attractive, he is bond to develop a romantic interest as the intimacy progresses.
If your friendship obtains a level of mutual understand and intimacy beyond a married friend’s intimacy level with his spouse, he is likely to become interested in you as well. This could lead to an affair depending on the moral fiber of the two people involved.
Depending on how deep of a friendship you want, you might consider….A friend who is married or even a gay a friend or stick to friends of your own sex.
When dealing with a friend of the opposite sex you need to stay on guard though and set certain standards and boundaries to prevent the relationship from developing beyond a point you don’t want it to. You should figure out what the warning signs are and then figure out how to handle the situation when it comes up so you keep the friend or curb the romantic interest before it develops too far.
You might also try an older or younger friend that would lower the chance of sexual interest.
Reply:FriendFinder.com
Good luck!
Reply:trust ur self and be the king in ur sight
Reply:anywhere.
Reply:online. where it can't really be anything more than jsut friends rofl
Reply:Its hard to find a guy friend, u will find him but just for the first week or so because then he is going to want something more than just that, so u have to look harder or just let him come to u.
Reply:to quote Carlos Mencia: "No one with a penis is really your friend, they say they are but it's all just pretend. He listens to your problems when he phones you, but all he wants to do is just to bone you...ole!"
Where can i find a friend, who only wants to b friends?
It's hard to find a friend that only wants to be a friend. You are going to have to stand up and draw the line yourself if you enjoy their company. My best friend is a man and I know that he has other feelings for me but I told him that if he wanted to continue to be friends with me that we could only be friends. I love him as my best friend but ONLY as my best friend. You can't put other feelings in there that you don't feel. Sometimes it's harsh but it is always for the best and if they want to stay in your life then they will accept your terms just as I would hope that you could do if you wanted to stay in someones life that you cared more for than they cared for you. I've had to do that too.
Reply:Well you might want to look at it like this. All relationships have their own level of intimacy. An acquaintance has very little intimacy. A friend has more and a lovers have even more.
As your friendship with someone develops, the level of intimacy will increase.
Somewhere on the intimacy scale there is a point between friends and romantic interest.
If your male friend is single and finds you attractive, he is bond to develop a romantic interest as the intimacy progresses.
If your friendship obtains a level of mutual understand and intimacy beyond a married friend’s intimacy level with his spouse, he is likely to become interested in you as well. This could lead to an affair depending on the moral fiber of the two people involved.
Depending on how deep of a friendship you want, you might consider….A friend who is married or even a gay a friend or stick to friends of your own sex.
When dealing with a friend of the opposite sex you need to stay on guard though and set certain standards and boundaries to prevent the relationship from developing beyond a point you don’t want it to. You should figure out what the warning signs are and then figure out how to handle the situation when it comes up so you keep the friend or curb the romantic interest before it develops too far.
You might also try an older or younger friend that would lower the chance of sexual interest.
Reply:FriendFinder.com
Good luck!
Reply:trust ur self and be the king in ur sight
Reply:anywhere.
Reply:online. where it can't really be anything more than jsut friends rofl
Reply:Its hard to find a guy friend, u will find him but just for the first week or so because then he is going to want something more than just that, so u have to look harder or just let him come to u.
Reply:to quote Carlos Mencia: "No one with a penis is really your friend, they say they are but it's all just pretend. He listens to your problems when he phones you, but all he wants to do is just to bone you...ole!"
Friends are hard to find?
I miss my mates, and unfortunately I haven't made that many friends where I'm living (In London). I've realized that as I get older, friends are harder to find. A couple of weeks ago I went to a poetry event, it was a small group of us, none of us knew each other, but it was really cool. They always say that you can’t just sit on your butt and expect things to happen for you, so, in the name of productiveness, I'm proposing finding a group and meeting up for drinks next week. If you’re interested, reply
Friends are hard to find?
You go for it ,,,sorry ime in Hertfordshire,,otherwise,,would be glad to join your Group,,,,
Reply:a Friend a special and good friend,are hard to come by but you will find someone?and I hope its soon sorry but I am up here in Bonnie Scotland,but get out and about you are sure to meet mates that you can get out with to meet more?get that confidence of yours boosted up and get out there but remember there are weirdos too so keep aware,and be carefull and good luck
Reply:im nowhere near london but good luck, sounds like you are going the right way about things and i hope you find some good mates there!!
wisdom teeth
Friends are hard to find?
You go for it ,,,sorry ime in Hertfordshire,,otherwise,,would be glad to join your Group,,,,
Reply:a Friend a special and good friend,are hard to come by but you will find someone?and I hope its soon sorry but I am up here in Bonnie Scotland,but get out and about you are sure to meet mates that you can get out with to meet more?get that confidence of yours boosted up and get out there but remember there are weirdos too so keep aware,and be carefull and good luck
Reply:im nowhere near london but good luck, sounds like you are going the right way about things and i hope you find some good mates there!!
wisdom teeth
Friends (marcel song-The Lion Sleeps Tonight) how i can find its friends version?
Christina, you got 10 points and my best wishes, thank you so much.
Now, The Lion Sleeps Tonight how i can find its friends version. it was faster in movie then i listen now..
Friends (marcel song-The Lion Sleeps Tonight) how i can find its friends version?
The Lion Sleeps tonight - Tight Fit (80s version)
It was also released by Solomon Linda %26amp; The Evening Birds as "Mbube" (1939)
Released by The Weavers as "Wimoweh" (Decca, 1952)
Released by The Kingston Trio as "Wimoweh" on their album ...From "The Hungry i" (Capitol T-1107, 1959)
Released by The Tokens as "The Lion Sleeps Tonight" (RCA, 1961)
Also Released by Robert John (1972)
Now, The Lion Sleeps Tonight how i can find its friends version. it was faster in movie then i listen now..
Friends (marcel song-The Lion Sleeps Tonight) how i can find its friends version?
The Lion Sleeps tonight - Tight Fit (80s version)
It was also released by Solomon Linda %26amp; The Evening Birds as "Mbube" (1939)
Released by The Weavers as "Wimoweh" (Decca, 1952)
Released by The Kingston Trio as "Wimoweh" on their album ...From "The Hungry i" (Capitol T-1107, 1959)
Released by The Tokens as "The Lion Sleeps Tonight" (RCA, 1961)
Also Released by Robert John (1972)
How do I find friends to do things with?
I am almost 51, female and single. I work alot of hours. I was raised very old fashioned and have never gone places alone. I have lived in the same town for 9 years and realize that all of my friends were "our" friends, therefore, since my divorce don't have any single friends to do things with. How do I meet new people and find friends to do things with? Any suggestions would be great and thank you.
How do I find friends to do things with?
TRY BINGO.. GO TO ABOOK STORE POTTERY CLASS... ANYTHING REALLY.. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE OPEN TO NEW THINGS NEW PEOPLE.. ITS ALL UP TO AS A PERSON.. EVERYWHERE YOU THERE ALWAYS AN OPPORTUNITY IN YOUR HANDS.. PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE.. CHOOSE WISELY AND B FREINDLY YOURSELF..THE REST COMES NATURAL
Reply:yep i agree, places like myspace, hi5, bebo are your best bet!
Reply:www.meetup.com-- if you live in/near a large city. There are lots of groups you can sign up for to get involved with activities you like and meet lots of people while doing it. I've joined a book club, a group of women that meet for happy hour a couple times a month, a wine tasting group, a group for board games, and another for karaoke. I'm 23, but there are people of all ages at these different meetings.
Reply:www.myspace.com
How do I find friends to do things with?
TRY BINGO.. GO TO ABOOK STORE POTTERY CLASS... ANYTHING REALLY.. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE OPEN TO NEW THINGS NEW PEOPLE.. ITS ALL UP TO AS A PERSON.. EVERYWHERE YOU THERE ALWAYS AN OPPORTUNITY IN YOUR HANDS.. PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE.. CHOOSE WISELY AND B FREINDLY YOURSELF..THE REST COMES NATURAL
Reply:yep i agree, places like myspace, hi5, bebo are your best bet!
Reply:www.meetup.com-- if you live in/near a large city. There are lots of groups you can sign up for to get involved with activities you like and meet lots of people while doing it. I've joined a book club, a group of women that meet for happy hour a couple times a month, a wine tasting group, a group for board games, and another for karaoke. I'm 23, but there are people of all ages at these different meetings.
Reply:www.myspace.com
Friends where do you find new ones.?
im looking for new friends that like to chat about almost anything where do i go to find this as im broad of hearing the same old things off poeple and some of my friends why is that they talk about the same old tghing every time you see them.
Friends where do you find new ones.?
try to enrol on a short course eg computers, literature, family tree etc your local library should have that information or an exercise class
Friends where do you find new ones.?
try to enrol on a short course eg computers, literature, family tree etc your local library should have that information or an exercise class
Do you buy your friends gifts? Like if you find something you think they'd like?
Do people normally buy their friends gifts other than special occasions? For example, you are out shopping and find a shirt that your friend would love.. would you buy it for them?
I think it might be nice to do, and I know other groups of friends that do. I've had the same friends for over 10 years and we usually stick to special occasions.
Do you buy your friends gifts? Like if you find something you think they'd like?
of course i do i love my friends to death but it also depends on if i have the money at the time
Reply:It's a very nice idea and it's very kind to be able to share that way. If you and your friends enjoy this, why not?
However, I stick to special occasions - that's what my friends and I are doing and I think it's enough for us.
Also, I am not a person who loves shopping - in fact, I actually dislike shopping - it makes me feel tired to look at many things with many people all around. It feels like work trying to decide what other people would like. I know this feeling is unusual because most women love shopping, but I am not one of them.
Reply:They would have to be very deserving and good friends.
Reply:I do, if I have the money. I like to get gifts, so I like to buy them for people. If my husband didn't stop me I would probably go broke buying gifts for people. It's fun!
Reply:If I'm a money printing machine, then I wouldn't mind. At the moment, I don't even buy a shirt in a month for myself. Credit card bills are rocket high. Eating out everyday just make things "better". Salary remains and commissions are not coming in. Practically there's no savings at all every month.
So, it will be a little unlucky to have a friend like me.
Reply:if something that a friend of mine would really like is on sale or at goodwill I would pick it up for them. for example, a friend of mine is really into Asian fashion and I found chinese dresses on the rack at goodwill that would fit her, so I bought them.
She gave me a whole year's worth of shojo beat magazines that she was getting rid of rather than throwing them away because she knows I like manga. and she sometimes makes things for my cats.
none of us have a lot of money, so we don't really shop for each other at full price, but we do give each other things all the time.
Reply:I do on occassion, especially with my close friends, and especially if it is something that I can pick up relatively inexpensively. I think it's nice to let our friends know they are special to us every day, not just on their birthdays or on holidays like Christmas.
shark teeth
I think it might be nice to do, and I know other groups of friends that do. I've had the same friends for over 10 years and we usually stick to special occasions.
Do you buy your friends gifts? Like if you find something you think they'd like?
of course i do i love my friends to death but it also depends on if i have the money at the time
Reply:It's a very nice idea and it's very kind to be able to share that way. If you and your friends enjoy this, why not?
However, I stick to special occasions - that's what my friends and I are doing and I think it's enough for us.
Also, I am not a person who loves shopping - in fact, I actually dislike shopping - it makes me feel tired to look at many things with many people all around. It feels like work trying to decide what other people would like. I know this feeling is unusual because most women love shopping, but I am not one of them.
Reply:They would have to be very deserving and good friends.
Reply:I do, if I have the money. I like to get gifts, so I like to buy them for people. If my husband didn't stop me I would probably go broke buying gifts for people. It's fun!
Reply:If I'm a money printing machine, then I wouldn't mind. At the moment, I don't even buy a shirt in a month for myself. Credit card bills are rocket high. Eating out everyday just make things "better". Salary remains and commissions are not coming in. Practically there's no savings at all every month.
So, it will be a little unlucky to have a friend like me.
Reply:if something that a friend of mine would really like is on sale or at goodwill I would pick it up for them. for example, a friend of mine is really into Asian fashion and I found chinese dresses on the rack at goodwill that would fit her, so I bought them.
She gave me a whole year's worth of shojo beat magazines that she was getting rid of rather than throwing them away because she knows I like manga. and she sometimes makes things for my cats.
none of us have a lot of money, so we don't really shop for each other at full price, but we do give each other things all the time.
Reply:I do on occassion, especially with my close friends, and especially if it is something that I can pick up relatively inexpensively. I think it's nice to let our friends know they are special to us every day, not just on their birthdays or on holidays like Christmas.
shark teeth
Well, if I don't have any friends right now, how do you find new ones w/o a friend to socialize with.?
How do you make completly new friends if you don't have any current friends to do things with and go places with-to find new friends. See I had tons of friends before, because one friend would lead to another. It is kinda hard because I'm always with just myself. How would I look if I kept going places by myself. U know, it's much easier to have someone with you to chat with-to find someone else to talk to. I'm sure there's people out there that know what I'm going through and might have some advice.
Well, if I don't have any friends right now, how do you find new ones w/o a friend to socialize with.?
I'm in the same boat! I've tried a lot of the obvious things, but making friends is not that easy. Especially once you reach a certain age. When you figure it out, let me know!
Reply:I REALLY wish I knew the answer to this question! Borrow a dog or some kids to take to the park and strike up a conversation with a stranger related to the kids/dog? I honestly have no idea. I've had conversations with strangers many times - I'm very approachable - but they have not led to friendship. It has been this way for 6 years or so now. All my friends live far away.
Reply:Go out. Do something you like. There are thousands of social activities out there. Maybe you make friends, maybe you don't. But you have nothing to lose. And at least you'll enjoy yourself doing something nice for you.
Reply:Don't have any friends? Do you have a family? There is where you should look first. Your family should be your best friend. Go to church and shake a few hands if you want to meet new people. A friendly hand shake is a good start. But always understand, Jesus is and always will be your friend.
Reply:church
Well, if I don't have any friends right now, how do you find new ones w/o a friend to socialize with.?
I'm in the same boat! I've tried a lot of the obvious things, but making friends is not that easy. Especially once you reach a certain age. When you figure it out, let me know!
Reply:I REALLY wish I knew the answer to this question! Borrow a dog or some kids to take to the park and strike up a conversation with a stranger related to the kids/dog? I honestly have no idea. I've had conversations with strangers many times - I'm very approachable - but they have not led to friendship. It has been this way for 6 years or so now. All my friends live far away.
Reply:Go out. Do something you like. There are thousands of social activities out there. Maybe you make friends, maybe you don't. But you have nothing to lose. And at least you'll enjoy yourself doing something nice for you.
Reply:Don't have any friends? Do you have a family? There is where you should look first. Your family should be your best friend. Go to church and shake a few hands if you want to meet new people. A friendly hand shake is a good start. But always understand, Jesus is and always will be your friend.
Reply:church
How can I find new Christian friends?
My circle of personal friends has always been small. Recently, a friend cut me out of her life like she has before to pursue her own selfish desires. She called me after months of silence to tell me how wonderful her 'new' life is and that she wants me to be a part of it again. I had already decided that I didn't want her in my life anymore. Her phone call made me think about the lack of friends. Being a Christian, I won't go to clubs or bars to find friends and that makes the pickings rather slim. My church is very small and there are no women or men around my age currently attending. All the members of the church are much older than me or still in high school and younger. I'm 27 currently. I want to find some genuinely saved men and women in my city that I can spend time with. Due to the small amount of friends I've had since I was young, I have no idea how to go about meeting people safely. Please give real answers, not just short random ones to get points. I need good advice.
How can I find new Christian friends?
I would suggest you to participate in Unity's seminars, classes, etc. Unity is a Christian church, but it is not against any church in particular. They focus on the positive and how to improve ourselves as Christians, human being, man, woman, sun, daughter, etc. You will meet there a very diverse group with your same values.
Other option is to enroll in your local community college in classes of literature, or yoga, or something that you likes, but does not involve drinking, etc. Also, you can join a reading book at the library or bookstore.
I'm doing these suggestions and I have met great people in all groups, Unity and my creative writing classes and the reading club.
Reply:Try going to a larger church. They might have groups for singles such as yourself.
Reply:I don't know what to tell you about finding friends in your city but I have joined a few MSN chat groups and made some friends in there. I too have struggled making friends locally. I am planning to try going to my church's college aged service (I'm 24, 25 in early March) to see how I like it and if I'll meet any new friends there. Good luck to you, I'll be praying for you. As I almost always sign off in my chat groups, take care and God bless.
P.S. If you are interested in adding an internet friend I'd be happy to add you to my list of friends. If you want to chat (on IM or whatever) Feel free to add me to your yahoo messenger list.
Reply:I am 29 and a Christian. It seems to be a common problem for Christians to find true fellowship. I have met one man on Yahoo!Answers that studies with the same Pastor I do, Pastor Arnold Murray, and it is really nice to talk to someone who knows the bible and Jesus and is living it. The only thing is that I am in the northeast and he is in Canada. I just moved here from CA and for a while I was attending a church. The preaching was good and was biblically accurate, but I thought this church put too much emphasis on music and not enough on teaching the bible. Beyond that, in the 3 months I attended this church nobody there ever greeted me or had a conversation with me, and I just did not feel a connection with them. I don't exactly have an answer to your question, but know you are not the only one looking for Christian fellowship. I will pray for you. God bless you.
How can I find new Christian friends?
I would suggest you to participate in Unity's seminars, classes, etc. Unity is a Christian church, but it is not against any church in particular. They focus on the positive and how to improve ourselves as Christians, human being, man, woman, sun, daughter, etc. You will meet there a very diverse group with your same values.
Other option is to enroll in your local community college in classes of literature, or yoga, or something that you likes, but does not involve drinking, etc. Also, you can join a reading book at the library or bookstore.
I'm doing these suggestions and I have met great people in all groups, Unity and my creative writing classes and the reading club.
Reply:Try going to a larger church. They might have groups for singles such as yourself.
Reply:I don't know what to tell you about finding friends in your city but I have joined a few MSN chat groups and made some friends in there. I too have struggled making friends locally. I am planning to try going to my church's college aged service (I'm 24, 25 in early March) to see how I like it and if I'll meet any new friends there. Good luck to you, I'll be praying for you. As I almost always sign off in my chat groups, take care and God bless.
P.S. If you are interested in adding an internet friend I'd be happy to add you to my list of friends. If you want to chat (on IM or whatever) Feel free to add me to your yahoo messenger list.
Reply:I am 29 and a Christian. It seems to be a common problem for Christians to find true fellowship. I have met one man on Yahoo!Answers that studies with the same Pastor I do, Pastor Arnold Murray, and it is really nice to talk to someone who knows the bible and Jesus and is living it. The only thing is that I am in the northeast and he is in Canada. I just moved here from CA and for a while I was attending a church. The preaching was good and was biblically accurate, but I thought this church put too much emphasis on music and not enough on teaching the bible. Beyond that, in the 3 months I attended this church nobody there ever greeted me or had a conversation with me, and I just did not feel a connection with them. I don't exactly have an answer to your question, but know you are not the only one looking for Christian fellowship. I will pray for you. God bless you.
Do you also find that making friends after 30 is hard?
The thing is - I moved countries 6 years ago and live in Ireland. It has been a challenge to make new friends. Suppose, the fact that my husband is not outgoing did not help either. I made several friends here, but, oh boy, did it take time! I am always comparing with my friends from home and I just think that the meaning of friendship is totally different - it's more cold, more formal. And I am not entirely happy in my friendships here: one of friends lives in a different city, another one is into drinking in pubs (which is not my thing). I had to finish my 1 -year old friendship recently because she used to put me down a lot, used to yell at me and was too judgemental. Another one is quite selfish and would always want me to drive to her place, would not make an effort to meet at least once a month, etc. What is wrong with me? Do you also find it difficult to make friends after 30? Is it because most of people are married with children and have no time?
Do you also find that making friends after 30 is hard?
Forget those who make u upset. Think positively, open up ur heart.
- Remember, every relationship start with this word - "Hi !"
- Step out and take some classes, such as cooking class / dancing class / language class etc. Better than bored at home facing the square wall.
- Find a job. Your co workers might be your friend in future, isn't it ?
- Involve yourself in some religion or social activities(not the politics type).
- SMILE always and may you have a brighter day tomorrow !
Reply:is that what it is???? making friends after 30? i think it's from moving. there's a definite difference in life long friends. i miss home all the time and all the friends i had. i have moved so many times, and i feel so alone because of that.
good luck to you..........keep working on it. a good friend is better than gold!!!!
Reply:Friends do seem hard to come by. I work alone so I don't even have co workers to chat with. Maybe we should try to go out of our way to meet new people, but where does one go to make friends when you've hit thirty?
Reply:I think a lot of it has to do with people "our age" are married and with the cost of living so high both spouses work, so their days off are spent with eachother. It does suck though, I married young had kids young, now (33)divorced kids are teenegers and all my 'friends' are just starting. I have not met any new friends in years. All my co-workers are old!!
Reply:it gets really hard to find new good friends when you are older..
when you were a child you can find them everywhere ..so as when you were in college...i'm 23 years old
and I moved to new country lately and i haven't find a good friends yet..it's so hard ...
Reply:You wanna know why its so hard to make new friends? Its because you can't trust people these days. People are only watching out for themselves. So you never know if a potential friend is just trying to use you or if he/she is the real deal.
Reply:i have to agree with you. im 32 and i dont have many friends. as a matter of fact, i dont have ANY friends. i mean, i have co workers and we talk at work but we dont do things together like true friends would do.
people just dont get together anymore like they did when i was a kid. i remember my mom and dad would always have company. someone was always visiting or they were always going out with their friends. hmm, people have changed.. no one wants to make the effort anymore.. its depressing really.
Reply:In Ireland, especially, it would probably be hard to trust new people coming into the area. With all the fighting that goes on over there amongst themselves ( the orange and the green ) they would be wondering whose side your on first.
Do you also find that making friends after 30 is hard?
Forget those who make u upset. Think positively, open up ur heart.
- Remember, every relationship start with this word - "Hi !"
- Step out and take some classes, such as cooking class / dancing class / language class etc. Better than bored at home facing the square wall.
- Find a job. Your co workers might be your friend in future, isn't it ?
- Involve yourself in some religion or social activities(not the politics type).
- SMILE always and may you have a brighter day tomorrow !
Reply:is that what it is???? making friends after 30? i think it's from moving. there's a definite difference in life long friends. i miss home all the time and all the friends i had. i have moved so many times, and i feel so alone because of that.
good luck to you..........keep working on it. a good friend is better than gold!!!!
Reply:Friends do seem hard to come by. I work alone so I don't even have co workers to chat with. Maybe we should try to go out of our way to meet new people, but where does one go to make friends when you've hit thirty?
Reply:I think a lot of it has to do with people "our age" are married and with the cost of living so high both spouses work, so their days off are spent with eachother. It does suck though, I married young had kids young, now (33)divorced kids are teenegers and all my 'friends' are just starting. I have not met any new friends in years. All my co-workers are old!!
Reply:it gets really hard to find new good friends when you are older..
when you were a child you can find them everywhere ..so as when you were in college...i'm 23 years old
and I moved to new country lately and i haven't find a good friends yet..it's so hard ...
Reply:You wanna know why its so hard to make new friends? Its because you can't trust people these days. People are only watching out for themselves. So you never know if a potential friend is just trying to use you or if he/she is the real deal.
Reply:i have to agree with you. im 32 and i dont have many friends. as a matter of fact, i dont have ANY friends. i mean, i have co workers and we talk at work but we dont do things together like true friends would do.
people just dont get together anymore like they did when i was a kid. i remember my mom and dad would always have company. someone was always visiting or they were always going out with their friends. hmm, people have changed.. no one wants to make the effort anymore.. its depressing really.
Reply:In Ireland, especially, it would probably be hard to trust new people coming into the area. With all the fighting that goes on over there amongst themselves ( the orange and the green ) they would be wondering whose side your on first.
How to find new friends?
I moved 46 miles from home in August to be with my boyfriend and be closer to work. While I still keep in touch with my old friend none will drive all the way here to visit. I'm felling super lonely but don't know where to start to find new friends. I have been working at the same place for 7 years and there is no one there that I can be friends with and the ones I am friends with are all single moms or they live so far away they can't hang out and go do things.
How to find new friends?
If you have time, you could try some kind of class or activity that would get you involved with new people. Depending on what kind of town you live in, there also might be neighborhood functions where you could meet people.
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How to find new friends?
If you have time, you could try some kind of class or activity that would get you involved with new people. Depending on what kind of town you live in, there also might be neighborhood functions where you could meet people.
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Where can i find friends forever pendants? cheap!?
im trying to find a friends forever pendant for my friend and i, it is going to be a gift for her bday
i found this one that said best friends on the front and "friends forever, together or apart" on the back, and i really likeed it but now i cant seem to find it again. please help and the highest amount i will pay is 25.00
thank you!!
Where can i find friends forever pendants? cheap!?
argos does a gold plated silver best friends pendant for £9.99 providing you're in the UK of course
http://www.argos.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores...
they also do a silver forever friends one for £11.99
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/pa...
and a locket (although its just the one, not a set of two) for £14.99
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/pa...
Reply:idk if they have it in the usa but hot dollar or cheap store definately have some. or diva or equip jewellry stores
Reply:claires. go to www.claires.com or go to the store they have really cute stuff for low prices! ok i had to edit this I have the same answer as the person in front of me I swear i didnt copy them!!
Reply:Claire's or ebay
Reply:CLAIRES!!!!
BEST PLACE TO GO!!!!
they are all cheap and affordable there
and they are all really really cute
i found this one that said best friends on the front and "friends forever, together or apart" on the back, and i really likeed it but now i cant seem to find it again. please help and the highest amount i will pay is 25.00
thank you!!
Where can i find friends forever pendants? cheap!?
argos does a gold plated silver best friends pendant for £9.99 providing you're in the UK of course
http://www.argos.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores...
they also do a silver forever friends one for £11.99
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/pa...
and a locket (although its just the one, not a set of two) for £14.99
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/pa...
Reply:idk if they have it in the usa but hot dollar or cheap store definately have some. or diva or equip jewellry stores
Reply:claires. go to www.claires.com or go to the store they have really cute stuff for low prices! ok i had to edit this I have the same answer as the person in front of me I swear i didnt copy them!!
Reply:Claire's or ebay
Reply:CLAIRES!!!!
BEST PLACE TO GO!!!!
they are all cheap and affordable there
and they are all really really cute
Friends/how do you find them?
i don't have any friends and i am not that young any suggestions how i can find friends,i was married for 8 years and just lost my husband and don't have any body i am 33
Friends/how do you find them?
Man is a social animal and so finds it difficult to live without family and friends too. Sometimes, such moments come in person’s life that he needs friends desperately. Such moments are very common who r computer savvy and spend most of their time on the internet. Sometimes they start feeling lonely. They wish to hv friends on the net with whom they could share their experiences or many other things. Some may like to develop the Web Friendship further also. Such personal needs can be met by visiting the following websites. Surf on them with a caution too to see how helpful these prove to be to u.
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Please visit the above pages to find friends. I hope, it helps u.
Reply:Just go out and join a club with your interests and meet friends with the same interests as you. Or just be more talkative when your out in public.
Friends/how do you find them?
Man is a social animal and so finds it difficult to live without family and friends too. Sometimes, such moments come in person’s life that he needs friends desperately. Such moments are very common who r computer savvy and spend most of their time on the internet. Sometimes they start feeling lonely. They wish to hv friends on the net with whom they could share their experiences or many other things. Some may like to develop the Web Friendship further also. Such personal needs can be met by visiting the following websites. Surf on them with a caution too to see how helpful these prove to be to u.
http://www.datingmadeeasy.info/
http://www.date.com/?trackid=00000002471...
http://www.edatingcentral.com/
http://www.lavalife.com/guest/welcome.ac...
http://promotions.personals.yahoo.com/ge...
http://www.datingsoftware.org/
http://www.aewebworks.com/
http://www.cuteflame.com/
http://www.idatingonline.com/
http://www.mybestdate.co.uk/
http://www.123-online-dating.com/
http://www.dating-online.us/
http://www.datingsupercenter.com/
http://www.dateandbeyond.com/
http://www.people-services.net/
Please visit the above pages to find friends. I hope, it helps u.
Reply:Just go out and join a club with your interests and meet friends with the same interests as you. Or just be more talkative when your out in public.
Whats the best way to find friends that are going to be good friends?
we just moved back home , and where we were living i had friends now im back home for good, im having a hard time of making friends close ones , and I dont want lots of high school drama but a real close friend I miss having someone to talk to and go shopping with, I am married but my husband is away for 1 year so its makes it even more important for me to find friends how do I find friends???
Whats the best way to find friends that are going to be good friends?
Friendship is trust Worthy,and it take a while to find that kind of friend if has to be earned.
Reply:It's very very very hard to find friends like that. I dont have that many good friends here at all. Most of my real friends are back east=( So I don't really have anyone to go shopping with or just to come over and bs for a couple hours. It sucks.The best thing I can think of is to take a class in something you could find out if there are any groups in your area that have the same interests as you.
Reply:u cant go to the mall and buy some friends,they come by coincident,let me explain it,most of my close friends i got them when i was doin things i like to do,this way i`m sure that we have something common between us,this can be the start.So try to live by urself as u wanna live friends will come by the way.
Hope i was useful ;)
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Whats the best way to find friends that are going to be good friends?
Friendship is trust Worthy,and it take a while to find that kind of friend if has to be earned.
Reply:It's very very very hard to find friends like that. I dont have that many good friends here at all. Most of my real friends are back east=( So I don't really have anyone to go shopping with or just to come over and bs for a couple hours. It sucks.The best thing I can think of is to take a class in something you could find out if there are any groups in your area that have the same interests as you.
Reply:u cant go to the mall and buy some friends,they come by coincident,let me explain it,most of my close friends i got them when i was doin things i like to do,this way i`m sure that we have something common between us,this can be the start.So try to live by urself as u wanna live friends will come by the way.
Hope i was useful ;)
Reply:Church/Youth Group
How can l doing my friend address add my friends list. but l can't find friends list?
how can l doing my friend address add my friends list.but l can't find friends list
How can l doing my friend address add my friends list. but l can't find friends list?
is it under contacts?
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How can l doing my friend address add my friends list. but l can't find friends list?
is it under contacts?
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When will I find "true" friends?
I have friends, but sometimes I question how close we really are.
In high school, I was with the popular crowd but I never found a best friend. In college, I have made a ton of friends....but sometimes I still feel left out.
When will I find my best friend that I can be friends with till we get old?
When will I find "true" friends?
Unfortunately, best friends or like soulmates - some people believe they exist, others don't. I am 32 and I have very close friends, but I don't have anyone who I would consider my best friend. That's OK though. I don't believe any other human can completely supply my emotional needs. That is God's responsibility.
Reply:by expierience
Reply:Very rarely in life do we find friends that we could grow old with. A true friend is someone who listens to you, wants to hang with you all the time, is there for you when you need them.
Reply:It might end up being your partner, your mom, or someone you work with.
Don't force it or worry about it. A lot of people don't have best friends!
Reply:i`m still young %26amp; in highschool but i know exactly how you feel.
i`ve learned from experience %26amp; people`s advice,
that true friends will come when you stop searching.
just be a good person %26amp; trust me when i say, friends will
find their way to you. for now, just realize that the best friend you`ll
ever find is the one you wake up to everyday %26amp; look at in the mirror =]
"we live alone %26amp; we die alone."
Reply:Well, "popular" crowds... what are the chances you will find true friends there?
Just try to make a lot of friends, and get to know them to have better chances of finding a true friend.
Reply:You cant really just make best friends. Best friends come in time when you both go threw hard times and good times. "But friends come and go. Your time will come " But for now just meet people. And if at times you feel left out its not just you(everyone goes threw that) its part of life. I still go threw that and I'm 28
Reply:To have friends, first one emust be a friend.
Reply:don't know, everytime I think I've found close friends they leave
Reply:Best friends don't happen over night trust me. I've known my best friend since I was 2 but never realized it until I had to move away. Luckily I've now moved back near her. But one of your friends in college may become that best friend that you talk to after college. And the one you never knew you had. You'll find them it just takes time.
In high school, I was with the popular crowd but I never found a best friend. In college, I have made a ton of friends....but sometimes I still feel left out.
When will I find my best friend that I can be friends with till we get old?
When will I find "true" friends?
Unfortunately, best friends or like soulmates - some people believe they exist, others don't. I am 32 and I have very close friends, but I don't have anyone who I would consider my best friend. That's OK though. I don't believe any other human can completely supply my emotional needs. That is God's responsibility.
Reply:by expierience
Reply:Very rarely in life do we find friends that we could grow old with. A true friend is someone who listens to you, wants to hang with you all the time, is there for you when you need them.
Reply:It might end up being your partner, your mom, or someone you work with.
Don't force it or worry about it. A lot of people don't have best friends!
Reply:i`m still young %26amp; in highschool but i know exactly how you feel.
i`ve learned from experience %26amp; people`s advice,
that true friends will come when you stop searching.
just be a good person %26amp; trust me when i say, friends will
find their way to you. for now, just realize that the best friend you`ll
ever find is the one you wake up to everyday %26amp; look at in the mirror =]
"we live alone %26amp; we die alone."
Reply:Well, "popular" crowds... what are the chances you will find true friends there?
Just try to make a lot of friends, and get to know them to have better chances of finding a true friend.
Reply:You cant really just make best friends. Best friends come in time when you both go threw hard times and good times. "But friends come and go. Your time will come " But for now just meet people. And if at times you feel left out its not just you(everyone goes threw that) its part of life. I still go threw that and I'm 28
Reply:To have friends, first one emust be a friend.
Reply:don't know, everytime I think I've found close friends they leave
Reply:Best friends don't happen over night trust me. I've known my best friend since I was 2 but never realized it until I had to move away. Luckily I've now moved back near her. But one of your friends in college may become that best friend that you talk to after college. And the one you never knew you had. You'll find them it just takes time.
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I need a friend where can i find some friends at?
hey my name is misty but most people call me babygirl i am 24 about to b 25 looking for some friends but its so hard to find friends when u are n a new town like me c i am from harrine katrina but now im up here n pollock so i dont have any friends so plz help ................................
I need a friend where can i find some friends at?
Well I can be your frien if you want me 2.
My name is Ashley I live in NM where do u live
Reply:I would be your friend but in you profile it says that noone can IM or e-mail you, so you can e-mail me!!!!!
Reply:Hi my name is Kristen, but my brother calls me proby. I don't have any friends ether. I am from Nottingham but i ended up moving to Northumberland in the north east and like you I find it hard to make freinds.
Reply:IM me
Reply:You need to get out and meet people. You can try Meetup.com They have groups of people with common interests that get together. I love them. You can find any kind of group you want. If you don't find it, you can start it! Whatever your passion, you can find it at www.meetup.com
Reply:well, if you don't work to make friends that way. Volunteer somewhere. You local library, nursing home, hospital and lots of other places will take volunteers. If you know how to work with flowers and stuff like that you could volunteer at the local florist shop Hey and maybe get hired if your good. Just find something you like to do and volunteer in that area.
Or you can sign up to be a substitute teacher at the local school. That would get you involved with the teachers and you could meet parents that way.
Or you could find out if there is a social club there or start one of your own. Like if your into playing cards. Such as Texas Hold em' you could go to your local restraunt and ask them if you could hold a tournament there. They did one in my home town and it was very fun and I got to meet people I didn't even know lived here. It brings in lots of service for the business and everyone gets to meet new people.
Or if you go to church find one you like and get involved..
HOPE THIS HELPS! Hope you find some good friends.
Reply:Go and join a club of some sort
Reply:hi, well i have myspace in case you want to check it out..
I need a friend where can i find some friends at?
Well I can be your frien if you want me 2.
My name is Ashley I live in NM where do u live
Reply:I would be your friend but in you profile it says that noone can IM or e-mail you, so you can e-mail me!!!!!
Reply:Hi my name is Kristen, but my brother calls me proby. I don't have any friends ether. I am from Nottingham but i ended up moving to Northumberland in the north east and like you I find it hard to make freinds.
Reply:IM me
Reply:You need to get out and meet people. You can try Meetup.com They have groups of people with common interests that get together. I love them. You can find any kind of group you want. If you don't find it, you can start it! Whatever your passion, you can find it at www.meetup.com
Reply:well, if you don't work to make friends that way. Volunteer somewhere. You local library, nursing home, hospital and lots of other places will take volunteers. If you know how to work with flowers and stuff like that you could volunteer at the local florist shop Hey and maybe get hired if your good. Just find something you like to do and volunteer in that area.
Or you can sign up to be a substitute teacher at the local school. That would get you involved with the teachers and you could meet parents that way.
Or you could find out if there is a social club there or start one of your own. Like if your into playing cards. Such as Texas Hold em' you could go to your local restraunt and ask them if you could hold a tournament there. They did one in my home town and it was very fun and I got to meet people I didn't even know lived here. It brings in lots of service for the business and everyone gets to meet new people.
Or if you go to church find one you like and get involved..
HOPE THIS HELPS! Hope you find some good friends.
Reply:Go and join a club of some sort
Reply:hi, well i have myspace in case you want to check it out..
I find it hard to make friends?
I'm not very confident, i have a lot of self-image issues, and find it hard to trust people. Growing up my friends weren't very nice to me and it has really affected me in the way that i'm afraid it will happen again.
Even now, i find the couple of friends i do have only see me when its convenient for them, when i want to do stuff with them they're always too busy, but i'll always bend over backwards for them when they need me.
I don't know why people don't like me... I'm a nice person, fun to be with, and a really good friend.
I don't have any interests or hobbies to help me make any friends, i just really enjoy working a lot to stay a little social
but the people i work with are much older than i am, so don't spend any time with them outside of work.
what's wrong with me? what can i do to make more friends? it really gets me down to think that i only have 2 friends and i'm 25 years old
I find it hard to make friends?
There is nothing wrong with having only 2 friends. I am the type of person who has 3 really close friends, then there may be a few people who I consider myself to be friendly with, but I don't count them as friends. I have made several friendly acquaintances, but I still believe my " true friend " count to be 3. I prefer having just a few true friends than several not so true friends. Don't despair, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. And as far as your friends who work you in when it's convenient, you just need to keep in mind that you are a loyal friend. The closest of relationships are give and take. So they are taking a little more at times. Hopefully when you need them they will be there for you. Time has a way of revealing who is your true blue.
Reply:Don't be so hard on yourself. And don't try so hard with your friends or else things won't change. You just need a little self confidence. There are so many people that would be good friends for you. You have to give them a chance.
Reply:Well, i dont like shy people because theres no point to be shy. I mean, youre scared to do funny crap because you feel people are going to judge you, but ( im in high school ), most likely, those people that i dont even know arent going to remember me and im not going to remember them, so who cares.
Just start beign open and say stupid stuff and stop being shy, noone likes shy people.
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Even now, i find the couple of friends i do have only see me when its convenient for them, when i want to do stuff with them they're always too busy, but i'll always bend over backwards for them when they need me.
I don't know why people don't like me... I'm a nice person, fun to be with, and a really good friend.
I don't have any interests or hobbies to help me make any friends, i just really enjoy working a lot to stay a little social
but the people i work with are much older than i am, so don't spend any time with them outside of work.
what's wrong with me? what can i do to make more friends? it really gets me down to think that i only have 2 friends and i'm 25 years old
I find it hard to make friends?
There is nothing wrong with having only 2 friends. I am the type of person who has 3 really close friends, then there may be a few people who I consider myself to be friendly with, but I don't count them as friends. I have made several friendly acquaintances, but I still believe my " true friend " count to be 3. I prefer having just a few true friends than several not so true friends. Don't despair, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. And as far as your friends who work you in when it's convenient, you just need to keep in mind that you are a loyal friend. The closest of relationships are give and take. So they are taking a little more at times. Hopefully when you need them they will be there for you. Time has a way of revealing who is your true blue.
Reply:Don't be so hard on yourself. And don't try so hard with your friends or else things won't change. You just need a little self confidence. There are so many people that would be good friends for you. You have to give them a chance.
Reply:Well, i dont like shy people because theres no point to be shy. I mean, youre scared to do funny crap because you feel people are going to judge you, but ( im in high school ), most likely, those people that i dont even know arent going to remember me and im not going to remember them, so who cares.
Just start beign open and say stupid stuff and stop being shy, noone likes shy people.
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Where can I find good friends that do not have kids yet?
I know this sounds weird! However, my husband is military and ALL of our friends have either one or two kids! My 17 year old friend is already talking about having her 2nd, and my 21 year old friend wants her second also! My husband and I always have baby fever because we are around it soooo much! Im stull finishing college though, and even though we wanted to have a baby next year I think that it would be best if I wait at least another year to get pregnant so that I dont have too much school left! Plus, we will have tons of money once I also have a job!
So, anyway...it would be nice to have a set of friends that do not have kids.....but, where can I find them?
I do love my friends....please dont think that Im rude or anything like that...like I said...I just need more variety I guess!
Also, is this normal for young people to have kids? Im not against it AT ALL, but its just seems like I went from not knowing anyone with kids...to BAM..all my friends have kids?
Where can I find good friends that do not have kids yet?
get involved into some things at your school. anybody who has time for the many activities at a college, can not have any children.
people are producing children at a younger age. i think it might be a trend or something. idk.
Reply:well having kids at a young age isnt bad i mean some people are just ready early for kids their choice but i understand where ur coming from but i mean friends are friends no matter what u guys need to find activities that comprimise with their children or ask then to makes a girls day out where u guy can just hang out shop ect if not just look for other varieties
Reply:I think it's great that you want to finish school first and then have kids. You should have a career and experience life before you have kids, they are a huge responsibility. I was going to say to find friends at school, but if your friends are that young having kids, then I have no idea where else you can look! Good luck and enjoy the life you have now with your husband because it changes with kids! (not in a bad way though!)
So, anyway...it would be nice to have a set of friends that do not have kids.....but, where can I find them?
I do love my friends....please dont think that Im rude or anything like that...like I said...I just need more variety I guess!
Also, is this normal for young people to have kids? Im not against it AT ALL, but its just seems like I went from not knowing anyone with kids...to BAM..all my friends have kids?
Where can I find good friends that do not have kids yet?
get involved into some things at your school. anybody who has time for the many activities at a college, can not have any children.
people are producing children at a younger age. i think it might be a trend or something. idk.
Reply:well having kids at a young age isnt bad i mean some people are just ready early for kids their choice but i understand where ur coming from but i mean friends are friends no matter what u guys need to find activities that comprimise with their children or ask then to makes a girls day out where u guy can just hang out shop ect if not just look for other varieties
Reply:I think it's great that you want to finish school first and then have kids. You should have a career and experience life before you have kids, they are a huge responsibility. I was going to say to find friends at school, but if your friends are that young having kids, then I have no idea where else you can look! Good luck and enjoy the life you have now with your husband because it changes with kids! (not in a bad way though!)
How do I meet new friends and find social groups?
I'm shy. Most of my friends are in NJ, before I moved to Ohio, six years ago. I have some friends. But I'm a bit depressed, since my situation is bleak: no car, no job/money, few friends, no love/social life, live at home. I want to meet new people and make new friends and want to get out more. Do you know where I find social groups of my interests and meet new people? I won tickets last week to a concert via phone from my local radio here in Ohio. I asked my brother-but he can't go. I asked one friend. She doesn't like country western music. So what do I do? How do I make new friends at the concert and elsewhere?
How do I meet new friends and find social groups?
You can go on chat rooms if your eighteen but im looking for friends online i can instant message but dont have to meet.
How do I meet new friends and find social groups?
You can go on chat rooms if your eighteen but im looking for friends online i can instant message but dont have to meet.
I cant find any friends.?
By late best friend and i go way back. Then two years ago she started to change. She all of the sudden wanted to be 2 faced and ignore me all of the time. Then she started to get annoying and sort of mean. SHe accused me a stupid little things like copying her hairsyle. She never accused anyone else of these things...just me. So finally i got sick of it and i told my mom about it. The principal happens to go to my church so my mom told him just to watch out to make sure i wasnt being bullied or anything. Apparently, he told one of the teachers to casually ask her and a group of people who i thought were my friends to make just make sure that i was included. Then my "BFFs" mom called and started yelling at my mom for telling the principal.S.ince this little episode i cant seem to find any friends. People who i thought were my friends started to treat me different. Like everyime i talk they roll their eyes and laugh a little. Ive been trying really hard to make new friends but nobody
I cant find any friends.?
Well, if they were REALLY your friends they wouldn't be acting like that! I would still be ur friend cause when i was in junior high i was bullied around too. Cause I was the scary emo girl who was getting her books thrown on the floor and getting things thrown at me! But instead I had no friends and I had to put up with that **** for 3 years!
You will find friends cause I did and to my surprise it was the popular girl who everyone loved to be with who asked if she could sit at my table. We have been friends FOREVER! She is my BFF now and we are always there for each other!
Don't you worry you WILL find friends the scary emo kid did.
Reply:WOW that's messed up, IDk what to tell you besides just try to talk to new people, SORRY
Reply:Forget them. Those people who pretended to be your friend before are just following the crowd by ignoring you or by laughing at you. You should try befriending people who are not friends with that group, even if these new people are not considered popular. You will be far better off leaving that bullsh*t behind. It is far more interesting to be friends with a diverse group of people from different cliques. You may even find true friends who will stick by you even when your mom gets overprotective. The "cool" kids aren't nearly as cool as they think they are. Good luck finding real friends that will make your life better instead of harder.
Reply:try to talk to them when theyre alone. if they ignore u, be persistent. of course, if u want new friends, go up to someone thats new/shy, and introduce ureself:
"hi im _____
i am ___ yrs old
i like to eat ________
my favorite color is _________"
then ask:
"do u wanna be my friend?"
Reply:go to a new school !
Reply:That tends to happen to all of us e-mail me at sienna_11094 @yahoo.com and I'll talk to you more
I cant find any friends.?
Well, if they were REALLY your friends they wouldn't be acting like that! I would still be ur friend cause when i was in junior high i was bullied around too. Cause I was the scary emo girl who was getting her books thrown on the floor and getting things thrown at me! But instead I had no friends and I had to put up with that **** for 3 years!
You will find friends cause I did and to my surprise it was the popular girl who everyone loved to be with who asked if she could sit at my table. We have been friends FOREVER! She is my BFF now and we are always there for each other!
Don't you worry you WILL find friends the scary emo kid did.
Reply:WOW that's messed up, IDk what to tell you besides just try to talk to new people, SORRY
Reply:Forget them. Those people who pretended to be your friend before are just following the crowd by ignoring you or by laughing at you. You should try befriending people who are not friends with that group, even if these new people are not considered popular. You will be far better off leaving that bullsh*t behind. It is far more interesting to be friends with a diverse group of people from different cliques. You may even find true friends who will stick by you even when your mom gets overprotective. The "cool" kids aren't nearly as cool as they think they are. Good luck finding real friends that will make your life better instead of harder.
Reply:try to talk to them when theyre alone. if they ignore u, be persistent. of course, if u want new friends, go up to someone thats new/shy, and introduce ureself:
"hi im _____
i am ___ yrs old
i like to eat ________
my favorite color is _________"
then ask:
"do u wanna be my friend?"
Reply:go to a new school !
Reply:That tends to happen to all of us e-mail me at sienna_11094 @yahoo.com and I'll talk to you more
Where can I find friends?
I am in my mid 20's, married, and a parent of a young child. The problem is my husband and I don't have any friends and it is really becoming a problem for me. Ok don't get me wrong we have "friends" at work, well people that we talk to. We just don't have people that we can actually go out and shop or eat with. Everyone that I know who is around my age drinks and parties at least 3 nights a week. That is not our life style. I mean we might have an occasional drink but out partying days are behind us. Neither of us moved off to go to college so we missed out on friends there. My friends from high school have all moved away. Where can we find friends? and NO we are not losers! lol
Where can I find friends?
if u want close friends ,u can lake fineds wif ur neighbours~
tat's a simple way of it.......
as for d old friends u can hav a gathering half a year or once a year ...tat's up to u~~
so,if u r really wanted friends, juz walk around in ur surroundings...there wil b a lot of them
d surprise wil wait for u....if u try it hard****
p.s.:plz remember that there alwaz miracles happen around among us~~add oil n believe in urself that u can make it =P
*~good luck %26amp; take care~*
Reply:You can find a Friend anywhere,you just have to look.
teeth bleaching
Where can I find friends?
if u want close friends ,u can lake fineds wif ur neighbours~
tat's a simple way of it.......
as for d old friends u can hav a gathering half a year or once a year ...tat's up to u~~
so,if u r really wanted friends, juz walk around in ur surroundings...there wil b a lot of them
d surprise wil wait for u....if u try it hard****
p.s.:plz remember that there alwaz miracles happen around among us~~add oil n believe in urself that u can make it =P
*~good luck %26amp; take care~*
Reply:You can find a Friend anywhere,you just have to look.
teeth bleaching
How do i find true friends and not friends that turn their back on you?
every person that i get as a"friend" seems like they dont have any time for me. I call my friends and sometimes they dont call back and then at school they want to sile in my face and act friendly.I just want to find true friends because i dont have any friends and the ppl i thought were my friends really arent true friends at all.
How do i find true friends and not friends that turn their back on you?
It doesn't necessarily mean that if your friend does not have any time with you is not a true friend. Maybe they're just busy or something. You can even have true friends who you seldom communicate with but when you guys hang out, it would be the BOMB!
You don't look for true friends. They just come your way =D
Reply:get new friends you havn't concidered before
Reply:Truth is your not the only one, almost everybody wants that its not something you LOOK for it sorta comes you know, TRUE FRIENDS WILL COME
Reply:it's depends because some people need a time for be alone
and could be they prefer to talk at school that at telephone
do u know what are friends? because all people can't be your friend
to be a friend u need more than talk and talk and talk
it's about have help and give help without say no in good or bad moments
it could be that they know many things of u that aren't true
if u want..... I'm here and u can talk with me when u want
my email is happyladystyle@yahoo.es (because I'm from Colombia)
and happyladystyle@hotamil.com
Reply:Give as much to them as you want given back to you.
It's a reciprocal relationship.
How do i find true friends and not friends that turn their back on you?
It doesn't necessarily mean that if your friend does not have any time with you is not a true friend. Maybe they're just busy or something. You can even have true friends who you seldom communicate with but when you guys hang out, it would be the BOMB!
You don't look for true friends. They just come your way =D
Reply:get new friends you havn't concidered before
Reply:Truth is your not the only one, almost everybody wants that its not something you LOOK for it sorta comes you know, TRUE FRIENDS WILL COME
Reply:it's depends because some people need a time for be alone
and could be they prefer to talk at school that at telephone
do u know what are friends? because all people can't be your friend
to be a friend u need more than talk and talk and talk
it's about have help and give help without say no in good or bad moments
it could be that they know many things of u that aren't true
if u want..... I'm here and u can talk with me when u want
my email is happyladystyle@yahoo.es (because I'm from Colombia)
and happyladystyle@hotamil.com
Reply:Give as much to them as you want given back to you.
It's a reciprocal relationship.
Can't find people myspace friends when im their friend?
I can't find my friends .friends because she has a friend I want to add on, because i like this friend. She told me to look at friends list, but cant find it, she wont be on for 1 week so she cant help me out. Any help how to find her myspace friends?
Can't find people myspace friends when im their friend?
why cant i find mzjazzy623
Can't find people myspace friends when im their friend?
why cant i find mzjazzy623
How do Find Good Friends in Yahoo?
I always try to find a good friend in online but still I couldn't find a good friend on there so is anyone know find a friends online
what I have to do to find a good friend no Romance and no sexuality purpose just friendship but most of yahoo members there for (Yahoo Chat rooms ) sex and nude shows so we can't trust any one in there even Females so please help me to find a good friend and if you want to be my friend then I will glad about that Hope a good answer soon !
How do Find Good Friends in Yahoo?
Sure I'll be your friend. I'm happily married and can always do with more friends. Feel free to add me on yahoo messenger.
Reply:hello sachin, i am a software engineer .
i saw your question. but i want to ask you one question.
How many friends you have now?
if you want a good and real friends then according to you
what is the meaning of a good friendship?
ple answer these questions then i will give you the answer of your question.
what I have to do to find a good friend no Romance and no sexuality purpose just friendship but most of yahoo members there for (Yahoo Chat rooms ) sex and nude shows so we can't trust any one in there even Females so please help me to find a good friend and if you want to be my friend then I will glad about that Hope a good answer soon !
How do Find Good Friends in Yahoo?
Sure I'll be your friend. I'm happily married and can always do with more friends. Feel free to add me on yahoo messenger.
Reply:hello sachin, i am a software engineer .
i saw your question. but i want to ask you one question.
How many friends you have now?
if you want a good and real friends then according to you
what is the meaning of a good friendship?
ple answer these questions then i will give you the answer of your question.
My friends GF is attracated by me and I find her cute too?
My friends GF is attracted by me, and I know it because she told me the other day. But whenever shes with her BF (my friend) she keeps saying shes in love with him. She also keeps saying that I have the identical personnality of my friend but that I'm 5 times hotter. I find her hot too and fun. We are rarely only the 2 of us together, my friend is usually around. Also I know that before she did cheat on her other boyfriends. What should I do if she "jumps" on me once?? or trys to have sex with me??
My friends GF is attracated by me and I find her cute too?
show some loyalty to your friend and get some morals.
Reply:Just Stay Away from her and tell her you are not interested, girls come and go but friends are here to stay. If you really care about your friend tell him whats happening. If you dont want to tell him well just stay away from her. Its your friends girlfriend. You wouldn't like it if your friend stole your gf. And she can't 'jump' you unless you let her.
Reply:what goes around comes around.
Reply:It doesn't sound like she is very trustworthy. Sure, she might ditch her bf for you, but how do you know she won't cheat on YOU? I'd get over her.
Reply:she's a filthy liar. she's lying to her bf because she wants to **** you .. if she tries to have sex with her .. tell her bf.. or have sex with her... if you want to .. and then lose your friend if he finds out ..
Reply:DON'T TOUCH HER. Her principles and integrity are limited, and it will cost you your friendship. Never remain alone with her to give her an opportunity. She has a history of cheating and is continuing this dishonourable practice in flirting with you. You aren't the one with the problem, it is your mate, only he doesn't know about it yet.
Reply:I WOULD SAY no your friendship with your friends mean more than some girl
Reply:shes a slut..... you should tell your friend...break her nasty habbit. dont let a bimbo ruin a friendship. and if you are scared hes going to get mad....
then TELL HIM ANYWAYS... and if he does get mad get mad back and tell him you werent going to tell him because you figured hed get mad.
Reply:dude dont even go there. if you are really friends with the other guy you wont stab him in the back over a girl. because its one thing to think about but doing it is sooooooo low. before it even gets that far you tell her look you are my friends girl and i respect him way too much to let anything come between us.
Reply:Is it worth losing your friend's friendship? I'm guessing so since you seem to be considering being with this girl. She sounds like bad news. If you don't care about your friendship with him and want that romp with her, then proceed with caution.
Reply:If you are a good friend you'll push her off! That is just not right! I just think that it is very uncool to do that to a buddy, regardless of how hot their GF/BF is! There are plenty of single girls out there to hook up with. Besides, you know this girl has a rep of cheating. Whose to say that she wouldn't do the same to you if you ended up with her? If you are just considering betraying your friend just to have sex that's all the more wrong. You should control the urge out of respect to your boy. No moment in the bedroom is worth doing that to someone. She must think a lot of herself to be so bold to come at you like that. Show her you're above it and do the right thing. She doesn't seem worth it.
Reply:I WOULDNT BOTHER COMMENTING THIS GUY JUST PUT THE THUMBS DOWN ON EVERY ANSWER LOOK FOR YOURSELF!!
WASTE OF TIME GROW UP CHILD
Reply:Think about it - if she's lied before, what makes you think she won't lie again? And then you actually start to like her and then she screws you over for some other guy? Wouldn't be so fun now, would it?
Reply:you've said one thing that strikes me here. shes your mates girlfriend. so shes off limits. so why are you asking this?
sounds like a slag to me and i'd slap her if i met her.
Reply:dont do anything with her. friends are more important then boyfriends and girlfriends. guys and girls come and go but friends are for a life time.
Reply:Shes a player!!!!!!!!!!! Reject her and thats the end of the story
Reply:it depends how much you like your friend, if you dont really care about him, then go for it, but i doubt theres going to be a relationship for you and her if shes already cheated on other boyfriends u know shes a slu- , and would cheat on you. personally i would never do a friends girlfriend.
Reply:send her my way
Reply:Suggest a safe, clean and anonymous online dating club for casual encounters, swingers to seek for discreet affairs, adult fun. Try it!! http://www.casualfriends.com/photo/hotba...
Reply:Tell her as long as she is with your friend you don't want to have a romantic relationship with her. If she doesn't back off, tell your friend. If he's a good friend he should understand and not get mad at you.
Reply:If tis guy is your friend i think that you should just stay away from his girl. Because gf s dont last 4ever but good friends do.
P.s after they break up its still a good idea to stay away from her too
Reply:12 year olds are so funny.
Reply:umm. John. Don't do it. your friend would never forgive you. she's retarded saying that you're five times hotter but she's in love with him. she doesn't know what she wants.
hope i helped. :]
Reply:get over her, simple as that just reject her
Reply:Laugh a lot as a prelude to giggling.
Reply:don't believe her until she finally breaks up with your friend. don't see things as something great and attractive consult this issue to your friend to avoid conflicts maybe this girl just want to hit two birds in one stone and not really serious in finding you hotter.
Racing Shoes
My friends GF is attracated by me and I find her cute too?
show some loyalty to your friend and get some morals.
Reply:Just Stay Away from her and tell her you are not interested, girls come and go but friends are here to stay. If you really care about your friend tell him whats happening. If you dont want to tell him well just stay away from her. Its your friends girlfriend. You wouldn't like it if your friend stole your gf. And she can't 'jump' you unless you let her.
Reply:what goes around comes around.
Reply:It doesn't sound like she is very trustworthy. Sure, she might ditch her bf for you, but how do you know she won't cheat on YOU? I'd get over her.
Reply:she's a filthy liar. she's lying to her bf because she wants to **** you .. if she tries to have sex with her .. tell her bf.. or have sex with her... if you want to .. and then lose your friend if he finds out ..
Reply:DON'T TOUCH HER. Her principles and integrity are limited, and it will cost you your friendship. Never remain alone with her to give her an opportunity. She has a history of cheating and is continuing this dishonourable practice in flirting with you. You aren't the one with the problem, it is your mate, only he doesn't know about it yet.
Reply:I WOULD SAY no your friendship with your friends mean more than some girl
Reply:shes a slut..... you should tell your friend...break her nasty habbit. dont let a bimbo ruin a friendship. and if you are scared hes going to get mad....
then TELL HIM ANYWAYS... and if he does get mad get mad back and tell him you werent going to tell him because you figured hed get mad.
Reply:dude dont even go there. if you are really friends with the other guy you wont stab him in the back over a girl. because its one thing to think about but doing it is sooooooo low. before it even gets that far you tell her look you are my friends girl and i respect him way too much to let anything come between us.
Reply:Is it worth losing your friend's friendship? I'm guessing so since you seem to be considering being with this girl. She sounds like bad news. If you don't care about your friendship with him and want that romp with her, then proceed with caution.
Reply:If you are a good friend you'll push her off! That is just not right! I just think that it is very uncool to do that to a buddy, regardless of how hot their GF/BF is! There are plenty of single girls out there to hook up with. Besides, you know this girl has a rep of cheating. Whose to say that she wouldn't do the same to you if you ended up with her? If you are just considering betraying your friend just to have sex that's all the more wrong. You should control the urge out of respect to your boy. No moment in the bedroom is worth doing that to someone. She must think a lot of herself to be so bold to come at you like that. Show her you're above it and do the right thing. She doesn't seem worth it.
Reply:I WOULDNT BOTHER COMMENTING THIS GUY JUST PUT THE THUMBS DOWN ON EVERY ANSWER LOOK FOR YOURSELF!!
WASTE OF TIME GROW UP CHILD
Reply:Think about it - if she's lied before, what makes you think she won't lie again? And then you actually start to like her and then she screws you over for some other guy? Wouldn't be so fun now, would it?
Reply:you've said one thing that strikes me here. shes your mates girlfriend. so shes off limits. so why are you asking this?
sounds like a slag to me and i'd slap her if i met her.
Reply:dont do anything with her. friends are more important then boyfriends and girlfriends. guys and girls come and go but friends are for a life time.
Reply:Shes a player!!!!!!!!!!! Reject her and thats the end of the story
Reply:it depends how much you like your friend, if you dont really care about him, then go for it, but i doubt theres going to be a relationship for you and her if shes already cheated on other boyfriends u know shes a slu- , and would cheat on you. personally i would never do a friends girlfriend.
Reply:send her my way
Reply:Suggest a safe, clean and anonymous online dating club for casual encounters, swingers to seek for discreet affairs, adult fun. Try it!! http://www.casualfriends.com/photo/hotba...
Reply:Tell her as long as she is with your friend you don't want to have a romantic relationship with her. If she doesn't back off, tell your friend. If he's a good friend he should understand and not get mad at you.
Reply:If tis guy is your friend i think that you should just stay away from his girl. Because gf s dont last 4ever but good friends do.
P.s after they break up its still a good idea to stay away from her too
Reply:12 year olds are so funny.
Reply:umm. John. Don't do it. your friend would never forgive you. she's retarded saying that you're five times hotter but she's in love with him. she doesn't know what she wants.
hope i helped. :]
Reply:get over her, simple as that just reject her
Reply:Laugh a lot as a prelude to giggling.
Reply:don't believe her until she finally breaks up with your friend. don't see things as something great and attractive consult this issue to your friend to avoid conflicts maybe this girl just want to hit two birds in one stone and not really serious in finding you hotter.
Racing Shoes
I have no friends..how do I find some?
Well the reason I don't have any friends is because last summer my then boyfriend and my best friend slept with each other behind my back. So I dumped my bf and kicked my best friend to the curb. So know I have no one to talk to except my family. I think I need some gay friends. How can I find some. it just seems most everyone wants to sleep with you, and maybe become friends.
I have no friends..how do I find some?
Just say 'hi'
Reply:ill be your friend...do you have MSN...mines Tyler8711@hotmail.com
Reply:LGBT section is a good place to make some friends
there is always somebody that will help you with what youll ask, and you can learn a lot, and meet new people
Reply:go to groups/meetings... also if you don't mind dorky guys that might be the best way to go, because usually they're not obsessed with hooking up so you have a better chance at finding friends.
Reply:Maybe you should consider a profile on a networking site like facebook or myspace if you don't already have one? You might be able to make new friends with people your own age and in your locality. Try it and see; its worth a shot.
Reply:I have the same problem, no gay friends. I have never met anyone around my age that did not try to sleep with me. Your best bet is to meet people at work or do volunteer work. Unfortunately, anytime you get two gay guys together, one of them most likely will be attracted to the other. Straight people run in to that problem all of the time. It is rare for a straight girl to have male friends because of the same issue.
Reply:you're gay, you don't deserve friends
I have no friends..how do I find some?
Just say 'hi'
Reply:ill be your friend...do you have MSN...mines Tyler8711@hotmail.com
Reply:LGBT section is a good place to make some friends
there is always somebody that will help you with what youll ask, and you can learn a lot, and meet new people
Reply:go to groups/meetings... also if you don't mind dorky guys that might be the best way to go, because usually they're not obsessed with hooking up so you have a better chance at finding friends.
Reply:Maybe you should consider a profile on a networking site like facebook or myspace if you don't already have one? You might be able to make new friends with people your own age and in your locality. Try it and see; its worth a shot.
Reply:I have the same problem, no gay friends. I have never met anyone around my age that did not try to sleep with me. Your best bet is to meet people at work or do volunteer work. Unfortunately, anytime you get two gay guys together, one of them most likely will be attracted to the other. Straight people run in to that problem all of the time. It is rare for a straight girl to have male friends because of the same issue.
Reply:you're gay, you don't deserve friends
Why are good friends hard to find?
I have only one really good friend that I met through my work about 5 years ago. I guess we get a long so well because we have a lot in common and she is not the typical catty and jealous female friend. I have other female friends but Im not as close to them. I prefer to have more male friends than female but I have had to cut a lot of my guy friends out of my life because they wanted to be F*** buddies...that's not happening. I need a guy friend that is very funny sweet mature and honest. Is it possible to find a guy with those qualities to be just a friend?
Why are good friends hard to find?
yes it is. sometimes its the most unlikely people who become your friends. For example I've had alot of female friends who I considered best friends but one way or another we grew apart. now I have to guy best friends which I love to death, we dont really see each other any more because we live in different cities and are really busy but I know that if I need something they are there for me. These kinds of friendships take years to cultivate and its not always the hot good looking guy who becomes your bff (but mine a pretty cute) you have to be able to set respect boundaries while also allowing them to be guys and talk and think as they may. it not an easy thing but its truly worth it. good luck
Reply:*******, *******, *******, *******, *******, *******! Report It
Reply:nigggger, nigggger, nigggger! Report It
Reply:it very simple. its very expensive to be a good friend.because frindship cost a lot in terms of time, money , energy,etc. so called friends cling to you for silly reasons. you become overburdened. if each onecan manage their problem %26amp; meet only to share their joy %26amp; happiness with others. you will find such people as great friends.
Reply:Yes it is possible to find a guy friend that is funny, mature, honest and great to take shopping with. I have two guy friends that are like this. Believe me there are some guys that you can be very good friends with and its great because they will give me the guy's perspective on things and I will give them advice about their girls etc. Not all guy want girls to be there F-buddies some are genuinely interested in having a girl as a friend
Reply:sure they\re are , you have to look hard to find one, and sometimes i guess they are right in front of us all along and we let them walk on by. so maybe we need to lower our standards a bit
Reply:some women are petty, jealous and snobby and mean, it's true. it's hard to be friends with ppl like that. but some of us girls are genuinely nice people, but it's sometimes still a bit hard to find those friends
then yes, some guys only have one thing on their mind, while some just genuinely want to be friends. they're out there, and u'll find the right ones when the time is right, good luck
Reply:try looking for them in a woman. then u can be friends without having sex. women that have alot of male friends seem to like attention too much. u need to look close at who is the jelous one.
Reply:Kokocutie, let me tell you that I'm a guy humorous, honest, sweet and mature. But I need to let you know that you also must possess all these virtues if at all you want us to get along. If you believe you have them all then contact me right away through my profile. cya soonest.
Reply:Don't be discouraged. It sounds like you're prepared to be a loyal and supportive friend yourself, and that's the best way to get going. Plus, you have standards - you're not going to do just anything for friendship - so what friends you have will be good friends.
So it sounds like you have what it takes. Maybe, though, you could expand your circle by getting involved in places beyond your workplace or neighborhood. Volunteer, join a church, sign up for something. And listen. People love to be heard. Just heard, without judgment.
There are plenty of people out there who could use a good friend and would be a good friend. Reach out a bit more, and you'll be fine.
All the best-
Reply:yes, i am here
Why are good friends hard to find?
yes it is. sometimes its the most unlikely people who become your friends. For example I've had alot of female friends who I considered best friends but one way or another we grew apart. now I have to guy best friends which I love to death, we dont really see each other any more because we live in different cities and are really busy but I know that if I need something they are there for me. These kinds of friendships take years to cultivate and its not always the hot good looking guy who becomes your bff (but mine a pretty cute) you have to be able to set respect boundaries while also allowing them to be guys and talk and think as they may. it not an easy thing but its truly worth it. good luck
Reply:*******, *******, *******, *******, *******, *******! Report It
Reply:nigggger, nigggger, nigggger! Report It
Reply:it very simple. its very expensive to be a good friend.because frindship cost a lot in terms of time, money , energy,etc. so called friends cling to you for silly reasons. you become overburdened. if each onecan manage their problem %26amp; meet only to share their joy %26amp; happiness with others. you will find such people as great friends.
Reply:Yes it is possible to find a guy friend that is funny, mature, honest and great to take shopping with. I have two guy friends that are like this. Believe me there are some guys that you can be very good friends with and its great because they will give me the guy's perspective on things and I will give them advice about their girls etc. Not all guy want girls to be there F-buddies some are genuinely interested in having a girl as a friend
Reply:sure they\re are , you have to look hard to find one, and sometimes i guess they are right in front of us all along and we let them walk on by. so maybe we need to lower our standards a bit
Reply:some women are petty, jealous and snobby and mean, it's true. it's hard to be friends with ppl like that. but some of us girls are genuinely nice people, but it's sometimes still a bit hard to find those friends
then yes, some guys only have one thing on their mind, while some just genuinely want to be friends. they're out there, and u'll find the right ones when the time is right, good luck
Reply:try looking for them in a woman. then u can be friends without having sex. women that have alot of male friends seem to like attention too much. u need to look close at who is the jelous one.
Reply:Kokocutie, let me tell you that I'm a guy humorous, honest, sweet and mature. But I need to let you know that you also must possess all these virtues if at all you want us to get along. If you believe you have them all then contact me right away through my profile. cya soonest.
Reply:Don't be discouraged. It sounds like you're prepared to be a loyal and supportive friend yourself, and that's the best way to get going. Plus, you have standards - you're not going to do just anything for friendship - so what friends you have will be good friends.
So it sounds like you have what it takes. Maybe, though, you could expand your circle by getting involved in places beyond your workplace or neighborhood. Volunteer, join a church, sign up for something. And listen. People love to be heard. Just heard, without judgment.
There are plenty of people out there who could use a good friend and would be a good friend. Reach out a bit more, and you'll be fine.
All the best-
Reply:yes, i am here
How to find my friends' common friends?
well, if i'm not remembering wrong, at home page (not profile page) there was a frame showing my friends' common friends. say, we're friends A,B, C and i in real life. and i'm friend with A and B on facebook, but i'm not aware that C is also on facebook. and, A and B are friends with C on facebook, so that frame was showing (duh, i think) C to me and was saying something like "you may know C". i think i'd hidden that frame by clicking "hide" or something, and it seems there is no way to bring that frame back?
news feed shows lines as this (A and B are now friends with C), but those lines pass by..
...OR, is there a way to find or list my friends' common friends that i'm not aware of (as C in the above example)?
thank you :)
How to find my friends' common friends?
Go to any of your friend's profile. On the left side under Friends In, click View All Friends. You can see all of your friend's friends (who are NOT your mutual friends).
The people who are your friends will have their names highlighted in blue. Those who are not your friends yet have their names in gray. Got it?
There is ALSO a pull down option at the top of this page that says Show:, pick Mutual Friends and all of your common friends will come up.
Just play with it and things get easier.
Reply:facebook is different from myspace if you know what high school they when to or college use that information to search for them it will give some results. You can't random search like myspace.
I like myspace but there is so many people meet from there and getting kill or going missing in Los Angeles, CA from the network site. You can't trust anymore.
news feed shows lines as this (A and B are now friends with C), but those lines pass by..
...OR, is there a way to find or list my friends' common friends that i'm not aware of (as C in the above example)?
thank you :)
How to find my friends' common friends?
Go to any of your friend's profile. On the left side under Friends In, click View All Friends. You can see all of your friend's friends (who are NOT your mutual friends).
The people who are your friends will have their names highlighted in blue. Those who are not your friends yet have their names in gray. Got it?
There is ALSO a pull down option at the top of this page that says Show:, pick Mutual Friends and all of your common friends will come up.
Just play with it and things get easier.
Reply:facebook is different from myspace if you know what high school they when to or college use that information to search for them it will give some results. You can't random search like myspace.
I like myspace but there is so many people meet from there and getting kill or going missing in Los Angeles, CA from the network site. You can't trust anymore.
Friends where do you find them & how do you know they are really a friend when they say they are?
what is a true friend may i ask %26amp; how do you know when you find one
i'v been burned so many times by people who would say they are my friend then to have them shut the door in your face when you need them the most
just as family has
it's ok if i do for them but when i ask them to do for me it's a nono
so are there any friends out there any more i never grow up with friends for my mom moved around to much so i never know what a friend was till i had my husband %26amp; he died 8 yrs ago i'm Deaf i lip read alot i don't know singing also i'm 58 yrs old
Friends where do you find them %26amp; how do you know they are really a friend when they say they are?
I think a True friend is:
Someone spends time on the phone with you through times when theres nothing to say because your hurting,
Someone that even though may not bump all their plans during the day for you, but someone that makes time for you no matter how busy they are,
Someone that tells you the reality of something when you need it most,
Someone that believes in you even though they may not support your goal sometimes.
Someone that you can call up a month later of not talking to them and burst out laughing on the phone,
Someone that sings dorky songs or snicker and old inside jokes you guys had.
A friend is something we all treasure deeply, but true friends and forever and are very hard to find.
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i'v been burned so many times by people who would say they are my friend then to have them shut the door in your face when you need them the most
just as family has
it's ok if i do for them but when i ask them to do for me it's a nono
so are there any friends out there any more i never grow up with friends for my mom moved around to much so i never know what a friend was till i had my husband %26amp; he died 8 yrs ago i'm Deaf i lip read alot i don't know singing also i'm 58 yrs old
Friends where do you find them %26amp; how do you know they are really a friend when they say they are?
I think a True friend is:
Someone spends time on the phone with you through times when theres nothing to say because your hurting,
Someone that even though may not bump all their plans during the day for you, but someone that makes time for you no matter how busy they are,
Someone that tells you the reality of something when you need it most,
Someone that believes in you even though they may not support your goal sometimes.
Someone that you can call up a month later of not talking to them and burst out laughing on the phone,
Someone that sings dorky songs or snicker and old inside jokes you guys had.
A friend is something we all treasure deeply, but true friends and forever and are very hard to find.
teeth cleaning
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Just click on this link
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Find friends?
Just click on this link
http://www.yoursay.com/2088883
And get your answer.
just join it.
So Simple.
Find friends?
Go to your search page
Tpye in age,male,female,location
You can have friends close to home or all around the world
Click on their photo/avatar/ and start visting their page.
If you have things in common or you just want them for friends,
Click on the plus and submit the invitation.
Continue to visit pages, leave comments on their page and make sure you have a profile and a blog .
They may invite you.
Find friends?
on the top of your 360 page..there will be a browse or search option..you can put the criteria you are looking for in the search forum and your options will come up:)
Reply:get off the computer and go meet people
Tpye in age,male,female,location
You can have friends close to home or all around the world
Click on their photo/avatar/ and start visting their page.
If you have things in common or you just want them for friends,
Click on the plus and submit the invitation.
Continue to visit pages, leave comments on their page and make sure you have a profile and a blog .
They may invite you.
Find friends?
on the top of your 360 page..there will be a browse or search option..you can put the criteria you are looking for in the search forum and your options will come up:)
Reply:get off the computer and go meet people
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What is it that you are looking for, Friends? Well i will be your friend, but of you are looking for friends go to Myspace.com
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Reply:Hi!
Reply:EllO
Reply:I be your friend. Email me at Friendlymike11@yahoo.com P.S.I'M 14.
Reply:Right here.
Reply:hey
Reply:Uh... I'll be your friend. ;-)
Reply:Go on My Space.
Reply:its hard to find friends but you will.my friends are a family there are three brothers but there the best friends you could have but i never get to see then because there always so busy but its OK. and hopefully you will find a friend just like them. God bless you.
Reply:Hi i'll be your friend
e-mail me at rp_noemi@yahoo.com
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ill be your friend but i charge by the hour!
Reply:Hi!
Reply:EllO
Reply:I be your friend. Email me at Friendlymike11@yahoo.com P.S.I'M 14.
Reply:Right here.
Reply:hey
Reply:Uh... I'll be your friend. ;-)
Reply:Go on My Space.
Reply:its hard to find friends but you will.my friends are a family there are three brothers but there the best friends you could have but i never get to see then because there always so busy but its OK. and hopefully you will find a friend just like them. God bless you.
Reply:Hi i'll be your friend
e-mail me at rp_noemi@yahoo.com
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Find friends?
Go to your search page
Tpye in age,male,female,location
You can have friends close to home or all around the world
Click on their photo/avatar/ and start visting their page.
If you have things in common or you just want them for friends,
Click on the plus and submit the invitation.
Continue to visit pages, leave comments on their page and make sure you have a profile and a blog .
They may invite you.
Find friends?
on that. u have to work on it yourself, it takes time and will to make friends, u can find friends almost anywhere, u just shave to approach them, and greet them, get to know them
Reply:All you have to do is go down and there you will see pictures of people.
Click on them and you will go to their profile.
Then somewhere you will find a button and invite as a friend.
Right under it's picture.
If I'm not right sorry. :-(
Hope I helped!
Tpye in age,male,female,location
You can have friends close to home or all around the world
Click on their photo/avatar/ and start visting their page.
If you have things in common or you just want them for friends,
Click on the plus and submit the invitation.
Continue to visit pages, leave comments on their page and make sure you have a profile and a blog .
They may invite you.
Find friends?
on that. u have to work on it yourself, it takes time and will to make friends, u can find friends almost anywhere, u just shave to approach them, and greet them, get to know them
Reply:All you have to do is go down and there you will see pictures of people.
Click on them and you will go to their profile.
Then somewhere you will find a button and invite as a friend.
Right under it's picture.
If I'm not right sorry. :-(
Hope I helped!
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Reply:still lookin
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Reply:What?! Halle Berry and Lindsay Lohan did what?! WTF?!
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Reply:still lookin
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Good luck and hope this helps!
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http://members.yahoo.com
Good luck and hope this helps!
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how to find a friend who can be trusted
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MYSPACE
Reply:i can be your internet friend!! send me a message ok?
Reply:clubs, parties, job, school
Reply:hi i need a frinds all over india or karnataka
Reply:you can talk to me!
myspace.com/iheartyou123456
add me
wow i wonder how many stalkers ima get for this
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MYSPACE
Reply:i can be your internet friend!! send me a message ok?
Reply:clubs, parties, job, school
Reply:hi i need a frinds all over india or karnataka
Reply:you can talk to me!
myspace.com/iheartyou123456
add me
wow i wonder how many stalkers ima get for this
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I am trying to reach Hanief from James Street, Albouystown Call name Bull to all his friends and family. Last I know he worked as a hire car driver. He has a brother who drives mini bus his call name is Layo. Please let me now if anyone has e mail address for Bull.
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welcome if you wanna to be a friend
yours
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Reply:CAN U BE MY FRIEND Report It
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http://www.thestarlitecafe.com/poems/101...
welcome if you wanna to be a friend
yours
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Reply:CAN U BE MY FRIEND Report It
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I would like 2 find friends from all over the world. Could u plez give ur e-mail 2 me, so that we can communicate with each other. =0
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(im deliciousdelicia)u know what?you can meet many people from all over the world by just joining this cool chatline called IMVU for all ages!!!its free simple and easy!!!even if u think im crazy just try it out cuz what do u have 2 lose?if u dont like it just uninstall the program.
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Reply:No
Reply:you're an interesting one. x)
Reply:i dont have to give my email,u can IM me!
Reply:join myspace or a site like that
Reply:nope
Find friends?
(im deliciousdelicia)u know what?you can meet many people from all over the world by just joining this cool chatline called IMVU for all ages!!!its free simple and easy!!!even if u think im crazy just try it out cuz what do u have 2 lose?if u dont like it just uninstall the program.
click on the link an follow the steps
http://imvu.com/catalog/web_invitation.p...
Reply:No
Reply:you're an interesting one. x)
Reply:i dont have to give my email,u can IM me!
Reply:join myspace or a site like that
Reply:nope
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