Why is it so hard to find friends anymore???

This is really a pain in the a**.. I cant find anymore friends in the area im around.. and i thought college had manyyyyy people -_-...havnt we all wished we would have gone back to junior high, or middle school? where our lives where at its highest? soo many friends.. sports.. parties.. and all that.. :( sighzzzz





I miss that.. and now it all gone. no one around anymore.

Why is it so hard to find friends anymore???
There are time you feel lonely, as if a rock lay on your stomach and wish to remove, but you cant cuz it heavy. That is the similarty to our life how we all want to remove our loneliness but it hard. How is it possible to have friends? Well, there are several ways. I've learned so many wonderful ways. One...choose wisely who you associate. Think about this...Are they good people? Do they have good intention as you? Do they give good encouragement? There are many questions to consider and have daily self-examination that will help you find the right friends.
Reply:friends are few and far in between, that is true friends.
Reply:its hard to find friends at thing age cause most people our age don't want friends they want party buddies or only if that friend can drive them places or friends if they Have connections. true Friends sadly are a thing of the past it would seem.
Reply:look for true frenz not any frenz~!
Reply:Yeah, I feel the same way....what I've done is to join an exercise group and am participating in some of the extra-curricular activities ----I go with an open friendly attitude and tell myself I will strike up a conversation with at least one person during the event. Believe it or not, it has helped a little bit. I also walk up to people who have been in other classes with me and strike up a conversation asking them for their email address. Sometimes I email them, sometimes not. I have made a couple of tentative freinds, we've met for lunch or gone to some event together ---it's way different now, are you in your major yet? Once you get into those classes you will find that the people who have that in common with you are more friendly.
Reply:when people get older they start having more responsibilities; more things to care about (i mean living matters and stuff) that's why they dont have time for making friends; their lives become machine-like and that's why when people express their concern about such matters-the way u do- they are singing an odd tune.


wish we can turn back the hands of time
Reply:its not that bad...nowadays its hard to find anyone that suite your style like a gangs use to do..but anything u can do is try to be yourself and dont be shy to start talking to anyone u dont know in the college.maybe they look like ite hard to make a friend, after u know them,it will start even better.when u know someone,u will also know their friends and then u will have a lot af friends to hang in out..
Reply:ill be your friend


your a cutie: ]
Reply:try to find your old classmates or something...or just try to make new ones.....good luck to ya