HELP.......STRAIGHT MALE AND A BISEXUAL MALE BEST FRIENDS...why DO PEOPLE FIND THATSHOCKING?

I am a straight male and my best friend is a bisexual male why do people think this is shocking....i have no problem with non hetero people and my friend has always been cool but why do people find it shocking that i am straight and he is bisexual, ans we are best friends.....Do you think this is a problem? cuz i don't

HELP.......STRAIGHT MALE AND A BISEXUAL MALE BEST FRIENDS...why DO PEOPLE FIND THATSHOCKING?
a person can be smart but a group of people are dumb. having said that i wouldn't worry about what anyone else thinks. it's not them that you know wether or not you can turn to when the chips are down. not every gay or bi guy is out there trying to get inot every other guys pants. i've been told by several people that they would never guess that i'm gay. but i have straight friends that have been mistaken for being gay and not because they were with me either. most people who have issues with someone that is gay or bi are just trying to take the attention away from themselves and their insecurities.
Reply:They find that shocking because they think your bisexual friend could be attracted to you and they're wondering why you are not afraid.





But I personally see nothing wrong at all in your friendship. I congratulate you for not having prejudices toward people with a different sexual orientation than yours.
Reply:Good for you both. I see nothing wrong with you being friends and am actually relieved to hear that not all men are homophobes that fear their own sexuality.
Reply:no problem at all if ur ok w/it that's all that matters
Reply:they probably think that u guys are a couple. Who cares what they think b/c my brother has a bi friend and my brother is not gay or bi. My brother is like u....he isnt prejudice. My brother even has a gf. But dont give up your friendship b/c of other people.
Reply:Hey ... it doesnt matter if your best friend is an alien. Whatever makes you happy. Forget those people who are "shocked".


"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
Reply:I believe a person sex life should be left personal. What a person chooses to do behind close doors is not our business. We are not the person who judges. If he is a good friend then keep him
Reply:there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. don't let close-minded people get to you. there is always going to be someone saying something nasty about anything to do with homosexuality. you are a mature, liberal and tolerant man, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
Reply:i think thats ok, juz ppl thinking... let them think.. they wont stop from thinking, coz the thinking makes them alive.. so let it be what ppl think.
Reply:Not a problem , just unusual. They prolly suspect that you are a closet homo.
Reply:people r stupid
Reply:I don't think that's a problem. But you can't deny that there's an instinctive repulse to homosexuallity. I can't explain it, I just feel it, and I'm sure 99% of straght guys do too. I don't give gay dudes a hard time... but the feeling is there.
Reply:people are stupid thats all don't let it bug you
Reply:No there's nothing wrong with that; it would be the same as saying that a man and woman cant be friends just because hes bisexual doesn't mean he wants to sleep with you same as a woman doesn't want to sleep with her gay male friends or lesbian friends; anyway **** what people think
Reply:i dont find that shocking nothing wrong with that.
Reply:Nah. But people are judgemental nomatter what you do or say. people will think you are too. its just the way some people are. i know it sucks.
Reply:It's not shocking, if you have fun with yoru friend, then who cares what other people think, what ever makes you happy
Reply:If they didn't know he was bi-sexual it wouldn't make any difference. It only makes a difference to immature people. Homophobes are so insecure within themselves that they find an immature need to attack/ridicule what they don't understand.





It shouldn't be a problem, if people would mind their own business.