Needing to find friends at age 38?

I don't have the money to go out to bars and clubs. the churches around hear don't offer transportation ( I asked) . I have no friends anymore ( due to a breakup with my ex) I don't know where to go to find some good friends and possibly a new man.

Needing to find friends at age 38?
grow up first
Reply:Keep looking just b careful online there are alotta weirdos out there that take advantage of people, so plzzz just b careful and good luck..
Reply:If you have a dog, maybe you can take the dog to a dog park? Another idea would be to start running outdoors and then if there are people who are also running, you can strike up conversations w/ them. I don't know if a running club has dues, but if not - that would be a great place! I would also try biking or hiking, or any of those. Not only would you be out in the open air, you'd be healthier, and there's a chance you can meet some people. Sorry to hear abt your breakup, but make this time all abt you and learning more abt you.
Reply:Well I know how it feels. Sometimes I think don't look for them or you'll never find any. Just try getting involved in things you like--you know any hobbies--reading, exercise,gardening,etc. You'll end of meeting people without even trying.
Reply:Try to join a Voluntary group -In a hospital-Old peoples Home. or join an Adult Education class . You will find friends .
Reply:If you work ask your coworkers to go out with you to a movie etc. What about a single female neighbour it doesn't matter about your age. You are still young.
Reply:Hey we need friends at all ages... Shoot me an email if you like.
Reply:man are everywhere lol you don't have to actually be in a place to look for a man--sometimes you can get in a club and not do a thing but look for a man although i don't suggest that you get a drinker--there's no point to that---but you can meet a good man anyplace--at the grocery store--out shopping at the mall, walking down a sidewalk in your area--you just have to make that connection with someone--strike up a conversation--you have to be a little forward but any time you are out doing anything you can look for a man--you don't even need to be with a friend to seek out a good man--just everyplace you go--look and start a conversation and I'm totally sure that you will meet someone that you can get interested in---hope this helps and good luck!
Reply:I am around your age too. Try to find things you are interested in online (like gardening, sci-fi, movies, etc) and then find chat rooms or discussion boards about them. That's a great way to meet people who are interested in the same things you are! And you don't even have to leave home! :)





Good luck! :)
Reply:I am around your age.
Reply:I'm in the same boat. I'm 37 and don't have any friends. Not one person I can call or hang out with. My kids are 21 %26amp; 17 (I started early) and have their own lives now. My husband has tons of friends he hangs out with all the time but I don't have any. I'm alone most days and its really starting to affect my happiness. My daugter invites me to go places with her and her friends but I don't want to do, I want her to have her own friends. The only advice I can give is to hang in there like me and we will one day find the friends we want and need.
Reply:try phonesex
Reply:Visit with some neighbors. You can begin by striking up conversations while doing yard work, etc. They may introduce you to other people that they know. Join a volunteer group. There are usually listings in your city newspaper.