Monday, November 16, 2009

Is it true that guys rarely have friends (who are girls) that they find unattractive?

I don't mean girl-friends, just girls who happen to be friends.





A guy told me that in general (although by no means the rule), guys don't like being friends with girls they don't find attractive, even though it's not romantic.





Is this true?





And why?





Thanks.

Is it true that guys rarely have friends (who are girls) that they find unattractive?
true, too true. i have lots of girl-friends, and they are all hot as hell, however this has caused problems before in my relationships, mainly jealousy.


but cute girls are fun to be around, you can take them anywhere, you look good when you are out with them, they make you look good to other girls. Some women have the same problem that guys have, wanting something that doesnt belong to you, and already to someone else. it works in so many ways, it's great to have female friends.
Reply:bc they feel that if theyre seen with an unnatractive girl, the attractive ones will think theyre losers who cant do any better. basically if youre seen with the good looking crowd, more girls will like you. if youre seen with unnatractive people who dont take good care of themselves, everyone will think that you hang out with them bc you cant do any better and that youre kind of pathetic
Reply:I don't think thats true.


Most guys have told me they prefer girls they DON'T find attractive.


That way theres no shifty business going on.
Reply:It really depends on girls.


Some are fat,ugly,mean.


Some are DAMNNNNNN hot.





Again, it really depends.
Reply:I can only speak for myself, and seeing some of the answers on here I wouldn't even attempt to pretend to know what some of these "guys" think.





I can be and am friends with many women that I do not find attractive. I don't really think it makes a difference if it truly is just friendship.





P.S. For the guy/guys saying that guys don't like to be seen with unattractive women because then the attractive women will think they can't do any better...........I assure you....this is NOT why attractive women don't want to be with you! AND just because YOU don't think the woman is attractive doesn't mean other people share your opinion.
Reply:even though ive just realized that myself....i dont understand why that is. all of my female friends are in some way attractive. but i guess at some point we were attracted to each other but just decided to be friends instead.
Reply:It's true. In general a guy is not friends with an unattractive girl. In general, guys avoid unattractive girls completely..as if they don't exist. Unattractive girls make a guy feel bad..so Why hang around them..especially when attractive girls make you feel good.
Reply:Very interesting question. I think it seems true, but anxious to see the answers.
Reply:no not true


im sure there are some people who may be like this but rarely is the wrong word


if its not romantic, then looks matter little (and even if it is romantic, that ought not to matter so much)

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